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Hello
Recently returned to Collarme after a hiatus.
Quite frankly, i have been getting tired of all the frauds.
So i have decided to give it another try
i am hoping to meet an intelligent (biological, not Trans)Lady (who is also aggressive, dominant and sadistic) for friendly online communication at first, leading to having coffee (or lunchdinner) in a public place (on my dime, of course) and hopefully eventually elevating to real-time safe, sane and consensual play. i also thrive on intellectual discourse since i love equally fascinating pursuits that extend beyond the realm of BDSM.
BDSM is such a beautiful art and i have lots and lots of thoughts on this dynamic and would not mind exchanging recipes -) So lets go slow. Lets talk. Lets get to know one another.
fyi, i am quite ticklish. Not the ha-ha-ha ticklishtype, but the twistingtrashing-wildly-in-my-bounds-like-as-if-i-am-being-electrocuted type. -)
i do have limits (Eeveryone does!). i am not into anything illegal, drugs or anything that might leave permanent damage (that includes STDs).
i THINK before i KINK is an important mantra for me, and it should be for Eeveryone too. i believe that BDSM play can done safely to ensure the enjoyment for Bboth.
Mutual respect and honest communication is a must. i may be the proverbial (and perhaps literal) footstool, but i am no doormat. And certainly not a money-slave or piggy.Women who take financialadvantage of the needs ofsuchmenget no respectfrom me whatsoever!That is not to say that i would not enjoy going out on vanilla dates i most definitely would. And naturally, such activities would be paid for by me.
No pro-dommes!
To me, the perfect Dominant and slave bond (pun intended) can be equated to The Ying and the yang. The Teacher and the pupil. The Positive and the negative. The Light and the dark. The Physician and the patient. The Guardian and the ward. The Warden and the prisoner. The Lock and the key. Freedom and captivity. Comfort and pain. Laughter and tears. And also, as the BDSM Community puts it so eloquently, The Top and bottom.
The 99 of my life that is vanilla encompasses a wide palette of interests including science mathematics (i am a huge Big Bang Theory fan i admit---i am a nerd), museums, botanical gardens, space exploration, road trips, various open-to-the-public university lectures (specifically at Cal Tech), history, nature, hiking, reading, architecture, financial planning, real estate, etc. I am a retired engineer who also involved in real estate investing.
How about You? What are Your vanilla interests? -)
Thank You for reading my profile.
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