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PDXPaul

I have spent the past few years focusing on my career, trying to rebuild it after being laid off in 2008 and struggling at my own business. So I have not been involved in this life for a while. I have dated vanilla a little bit but it just did not fit, I can not shake who I am. I love and crave being in control. The feeling when someone submits to me. How it tears down all the walls. The social taboo walls, the personal space walls, the sexual walls. To be free, to be myself. So what am I looking for? Any sort of BDSM relationship that is based on openness, communication and honesty. I have found that something longer term allows for a deeper connection between myself and my partner. There is more time to gain the trust need to push boundaries. I do not want to put limits on that I also enjoy something lighter and not opposed to casual meetings. Even then, I think it is important to know the person well and understand who they are. I am an open book, please feel free to ask me anything. My interested are varied. There is very little that I have explored that I did not like. I am comfortable talking about any subject - BDSM or not. Look forward to meeting like minded people.