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I insist on a life filled with passion, kink, intimacy, structure and a whirlwind of fun and joy. I am an attorney, a dominant, a sadist, a flirt, a taskmaster, and a champion of underdogs everywhere. I have high standards for those around me, but I expect to be held to high standards as well. I believe in the permanency of bonds and ownership, but that bond is something that must be actively developed and nurtured on a daily basis. I am not part of my local community at the moment, due to some recent brushes with being publicly outed in my previous hometown. I am interested in exploring the local kink scene, but will be taking those steps cautiously since I have a high profile profession. I do have references that can speak to my character, my skills (and safety) as a sadist and perhaps even my charm. I have one girl in my life who has provided me with an immense amount of delight and will always be a part of me. She is married to someone else, but our continued connection is something that must be respected by anyone who would seek to attach herself to me. I am seeking a primary partner / slave / slut / thoroughly filthy little lady to fuck, abuse, love, cherish and utterly destroy on a regular basis. My requirements are as follows:
  • A pain slut. I love to dole out whippings, canings, cuttings, smackings, electrotorture, fistings and more on a regular basis. If you aren't interested in this intense level of play at least weekly, we would be a poor fit.
  • A high degree of sexuality. I enjoy fucking and I enjoy sharing. The sharing element is optional but the sexual component is not.
  • Intelligence. I am attracted to witty, well-spoken women who enjoy processing their life experiences through words.
  • US-based. I am open to a temporary long distance relationship with an eye to eventual relocation, but I am seeking someone within a reasonable traveling distance to allow us to get to know one another.
  • Please don't be a dabbler. I am an intense individual and I seek that in my slave. I am not looking for a girl who just read 50 Shades and wants to take a pair of handcuffs for a spin.
  • While I am open to playing with and potentially dating someone who is in a poly relationship, I am ideally looking for someone who is open to more and those who are looking for a primary relationship themselves will take priority.
  • A sense of self awareness. Please know what you want, what you are looking for, and who you are. I would love to help mold you, but I want my material to know herself well enough to be able to marvel at the process of transformation that I wreak.
Having said my rather wordy piece, cheers to you if you made it
ownedrothe
 
 Age: 30
  Illinois