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I'm new to this. I've never submitted to anyone. In fact, I am fairly dominant/ assertive and in most of my previous relationships, I have been the one in control. I do it well but it doesn't make me happy. I don't want to be the one to initiate. I would love to be able to let go and allow someone else to make decisions for me. That said, I have a healthy amount of self respect and I am not a doormat. I do not seek abuse or to be humiliated. The most accurate description of what I'm looking for is a Daddy. He cherishes me and knows me so well that he's confident in choosing for me. He knows what I need. He is able to compel me to seek his approval and to please him. For reasons of security and privacy, I won't post photos but I am more than willing to cam verify. This is something I really want in my life. N.B. I am not interested in online domination so please be local. And while I am looking for a Daddy, I'm not actually looking for someone old enough to be my father. I've been asked to clarify my age requirements so please be within 30- 42. Finally, I am not interested in joining a poly household/ stable or entering into anything with someone who already has a significant other. *The amount of messages I'm getting is a little overwhelming. Apologies if I don't get a chance to reply. For similar reasons, I'd ask you to hold off on chat requests.
6/8/2013 1:07:24 PM
I'm fairly certain that sending messages in all CAPS does not make you more dominant. More irritating? Yes.
3/14/2012 10:11:26 PM

At the risk of sounding un- submissive, I really do not think men who send me notes that read "I always wanted a oriental slut" (I'm not a rug) and "I will own all of your wholes" (misspelling is theirs, not mine) are likely to be the right man for me.