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< style="box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0px;">Just a kinky, educated, professional, and Dominant guy in his 30s looking for his forever sub.
Hey there, and welcome to my page! I’m not here to bore anyone with a profile full of dick pics and what I believe a sub should be, so I’ll cut straight to the chase…. About me: I knew I had an affinity for bondage since a young age. I remember being a kid and having a “butterflies in my stomach” feeling everytime I would watch tv shows/ movies/ cartoons, depicting a woman tied or in distress; or playing “tie up games” with my girl neighbors. As I got older (teens), I started researching this, which opened up a vast world of kink and led me to research BDSM, with bondage and D/s, in particular. Once I got to college/ after college, I began engaging in D/s, assuming my Dom role. Fast forward a few years, and my journey has led me through ups and downs, novices and experienced ones, and getting to know amazing people. What I’m looking for…Ideally, I’d like to find someone who truly desires being a submissive and understands the D/s dynamic. Someone who understands that the dynamic should feel fluid and natural, and underlying trust that doesn’t need to be brought it or spoken for, it just “happens” or “feels right”. Of course I respect a woman’s boundaries inside and outside of the bedroom, but I’d like to find someone who doesn’t mind “feeling like a woman” at the end of the day, especially after a long day’s work, and she just wants to “let go of it all”. Even if she doesn’t have the energy to decide what to have for take out, having her entrust that decision in me, is all I need to make me feel like her caretaker. I’m not DEMANDING submission. All in all, < style="box-sizing: border-box;">submission is earned and not rewarded, but having that trust placed upon you is a great feeling, and I hope to experience that once again. I’m looking for all the perks of a regular, normal, and sane relationship, with the perks of knowing we both crave D/s behind closed doors. Knowing our dynamic has structure and trust is the basis of any relationship (IMO).

What I’m into WITHIN the bedroom:

And here we are, the basis of this profile and the point of the site (amirite?)…

-bondage (light, damsel in distress-esque -nothing heavy, but I do enjoy various types of restraints)
-D/s
-DD/lg
-impact play (otk kings, paddles, crops, floggers -to me it’s the control aspect of it, where there must be structure and rules, and obviously, if they aren’t met, then they have to be addressed).
-reward/punishment
-sensory deprivation
-sensualism
-edging
-toys
-CNC
-mild humiliation (no degradation)
-TPE
-body worship

Anything further or in detail, refer to the *fetish list on the bottom of my profile.Thanks for taking the time to read my profile. If you think we’d get along, even if it’s on a platonic level between 2 kinksters sharing their mutual likes for certain fetishes, don’t be shy to drop a line. Note: due to the nature of this site/profile, I’ve obviously refrained from posting pics due to my profession. I’m willing to exchange/share pics after getting to know one another, or hitting it off through messages.

< style="box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0px;">Although my profile states I’m in Edison, I’m actually 15-20 min from NYC and I tend to spend most of my off time there

Good luck out there and kink on ;)