I've been on here for a few months now and have realized that yes there are some nice guys on here but the majority of them are married.  When i asked why they didn't tell their wife about their desires, the answer was always the same...the wife isn't interested.  Its extremely frustrating for us subs b/c we are looking for our Master not some guy who is looking for a piece and or a punching bag on the side.  Most of us aren't looking for a quick fuck or a one time beating session.  i feel like a broken record when i tell these guys that a M/s relationship isn't just sex and beatings...its about trust, submitting, devotion and giving ourselves over to them.  When you lie and take advantage of a submissive, it totally breaks us down.  You married guys or otherwise attached guys don't realize what it takes to invite you over and let our guards down enough to let you smack us, whip us and fuck us.  i know this will fall on deaf ears but it saddens me.  When my Master moved, i was devastated and didn't think i could ever look for someone else again.  i was told about this site from a friend b/c i was ready but this site is a joke and i feel sorry for those subs who go thru what i went thru while on this site...being lied to, being taken advantage of, having my trust broken.  We aren't just a quick fuck.

You message me for a few days, suggest we go to dinner and a movie then stop talking to me because I tell you I won't do anything sexual with you on in the theater upon the first meeting.  Wow, can we say only looking for a quick fuck?  You aren't a Dom, you are a pathetic asshole.