My name is Odori Silk, though please just call me Silk; Odori is Japanese for dancer and I earned that name, more of a title of endearment, in 2003. SilkSpecter, taken from the graphic novel "The Watchmen," was my aol name in 1995 and became Silk as my journey took me off line and into the "real world."

I am in a 19+ year D/s relationship; I serve as his "Girl Friday" and he always gives me what I need, though maybe not always what I want. He is my Daddy when I need him to be and the Master who chooses to own me every day. I am his, body, mind and soul.

Though the dynamics of our sexually monogamous relationship have never changed, I am a poly BDSM switch.

I love service and to that end I am looking for a female submissive who understands my own dynamic, is not threatened by it and can thrive in a non-sexual D/s relationship with me that involves service, companionship and whatever level of BDSM we find ourselves gravitating to.

As a Top, I love to cane and am a sadistic little twist. I play hard, sometimes too hard, and I love to dance on the edge but I also enjoy erotic, sensual play when the chemistry is right. I really enjoy watching tears brim and overflow when I look in the eyes of those I top, whether it's stinging tears of pain, or sensual tears of surrender. I enjoy the connection I find in this lifestyle and I find such fulfillment when I connect with someone in BDSM, two souls dancing together.

I'm a total femme and love tea parties, shopping, pedicures, hats, oh I love hats.

I have experience in the Dallas Fort Worth Leather/BDSM community as a writer, a teacher, a confidant, event organizer, volunteer, fundraiser lackey, performer and have served as a board or council member in several DFW groups in the past.

Once upon a time I co-founded and danced in a BDSM dance troupe called "Dark Reflections" and have performed nationally. Also, way back a long time ago, in a memory far far away, I co-produced and edited a BDSM mgazine called "Tribal News". It was a good time and I learned a lot about myself and celebrating this wonderful life that we make for ourselves.

I’ve spoken on or taught a lot of classes over the years. The highlights would be Fantasy Roleplaying, Interrogation, Switching, Submission, Humiliation, Erotic Edge Play, Polyamourous Play, and many self care classes directed at the submissive such as "Taking Care of Master’s Property" and "Negotiating From the Bottom."

If you would like to be friends, please send me a note along with your request. I keep my friends list culled to those I have relationships with as I'm not here to collect friends. So please, if you want to be friends, then let's do that, not collect one another.

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