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Pan Male Submissive, 54,  NewYork, New York
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I am a very outgoing open and alpha man who, for as far back as I can remember, has gotten pleasure in seeing others happy.

If I am at a party I only care that everyone else is having fun. At work, I am a firm leader who wants to help people improve. With my friends, I am always there for them.

I actually learned about this lifestyle when I was in grade school as my friend found his fathers porn magazine stash. I read a story about a domme and her sub and it all clicked. I realized this lifestyle fit who I am. I am so glad to have found Fetlife to connect to others in the community.












 Submissive Male


 New York

 6' 1"

 170 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Dominant male

Switch Women

Domme/Dom Couples

Female Led Couples


 Lives For:

 Being allowed to be your servant

 Being allowed to do all of the housework

 Being humiliated by you

 Being allowed to give you massages

 Being allowed to be obedient to you

 You deciding when I'm allowed to have an orgasm

 You deciding what I wear

 You treating me like your butler

 Being allowed to service you orally

 Public Play

 Role Playing




 Anal Play

 Being allowed to beg you for things

 Being blindfolded

 Being allowed to worship your body

 You tying me up

 Being allowed to see your breasts

 Being placed in a cage by you

 You disciplining me with a cane

 You controlling my male parts

 Being allowed to wear your collar

 You giving me corner time

 Being allowed to see you in corsetry

 Being crossdressed by you


 Eye contact with you not allowed

 You punishing my gentials

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 Being allowed to worship your feet

 You putting me on a leash




 Being spanked by you

 Being allowed to see you in stockings

 You using a strap-on on me


 Being allowed to use a vibrator on you





 Scuba Diving


 Electrical Play

 Erotic touch

 Being gagged by you

 Hair Pulling

 You wearing masks

 Sensation Play

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Rubber Fetish

 Sensory Play

 You telling me when I'm allowed to speak

 Suspension Bondage

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Wax Play

 Curious About:


 G-spot Service

 Masks (Wearing)

 Mental Bondage

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Theatrical Scenes


 Modern Primitivism

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