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Ive always had a pretty complicated relationship with kink in general, thus Ive never known how to identify myself within the community. Ive had this profile for a few years but never really did anything with it as a result. Im not even totally sure what it is that Im looking for.

I admit Im completely inexperienced in the realm of BDSM, which might be a deal breaker for some people. I feel pretty awkward talking about any of this in detail, even anonymously, if Im honest. That said, Ill try

Id describe myself as extremely masochistic. I think you can pretty much hit me wherever you want as hard as you want. My ideal dom would be something of a disciplinarian in style. The idea of tender touch kind of freaks me out, and Id rather you just spank me, but I could work my way up to tolerating it if thats your thing.

Also, since Im inexperienced, you could probably convince me to try some pretty weird shit. I like the idea of allowing someone to indulge their obscure fantasies, even if its not necessarily inherently a fantasy of mine.

I feel like its relevant that I point out that I am bisexual, and have no preference between men and women. Actually pansexual might be the in vogue term for my sexuality. I also dont have any preference among cis, trans, non-binary, etc. people.

Anyway thats about all I can stomach as far as describing myself. Id be happy to send face pictures, but after chatting for a bit. Im a bit of a social dumbass, so I might seem disinterested when really Im just struggling to figure out what to say. But Ill try my best to keep the conversation going smoothly. Im also looking to make some friends on here, so feel free to message me for a casual chat.