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NotChristian73

I have lived in both Europe and North and South America, and speak both German and English. Im a huge nerd and geek, relishing in Audiobooks and Great Courses about History, Philosophy and Science, enjoy a good Historical Fiction, Fantasy or Science Fiction Novel, and am an avoid Role-Player and part time Game Designer, but sometimes enjoy a good story driven video game, sportracing game or MovieTV show. Usually I dont watch much or any TV though, with the exception of ula One Racing, or the occasional Patriots Football Game. Trying to improve my health by getting to the point that I can run a few 5ks each week in the morning, and swim a bit in the evening if weather and time permits, Ive also done some Kart Racing, Martial Arts, Fencing , over the years.

As Im a real person I have multiple facets to me, as there should be to you if you are real. Im looking for a woman who can take charge at times, but my children are always my priority when they need and are with me, even that will clearly change as they get older, and at times my job demands to be the priority.

Im technical married, but havent seen my wife outside a courtroom in years (again more in the what Im seeking section), and shes had a few engagements and pregnancies with other men while married to me, so there is no need for discretion, not have I had sexual relations with her in years. Im at the point in my life, where Im perfectly comfortable in my own company, and hope you are too, because then most likely we will enjoy each others company.

Based on my experience in the few days Ive been on here, it seems I should state what Im not interested in, any kind of arrangement that just sex nor sending of nude pictures. Like all of us Im fully capable to please myself, and its not hard to find pornography material for free on the internet.

Ive also learned that Age and Maturity are to distinct attributes, once can be old and immature or young and mature, and meet as many young ladies in their 20s and women in their 40s who were immature, but also some who were wise beyond their years and mature. We all are individuals, and Im looking forward to get to know you.

The next important factor is location, if you are local to the Charlotte area or travel here frequently we can work out a schedule, two see each other a few times a month, which I would like to have at least one or maybe two BDSM sessions, with you as the dominant partner where I fully submit to you. The rest of the time, I have to be in charge of my own life, to handle my own business and my kids.

In retrospect my second marriage was an arrangement, and maybe even the first, as well as my long term house guest, which brought me to trying this out. My plan is to see what happens in this month, and then select the best mutual option for both of us. I put it all out there, and hope you do the same, this would be the place to do it. Sounds like plan?