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| Ask yourself these questions. Are you fed up with all the games on this site? Are you ready to finally meet someone that is real? Who is not married or cheating on there sub or girlfriend? If you answered no then do not read anymore. If you answered yes then by all means keep reading.
Looking for one good slave-sub for LTR. Looking for slim to average sub-slave. No game players looking for full time. no drug users, drunks, and free of all STDS.
I am a Dominant man who desires a submissive/slave who is intelligent, strives to learn, grow, and enjoys serving in all manner of ways. Does that describe you?
You will understand that you will be required to communicate your desires as well as your fears.
Together we can create a bond that you will feel safe in and yet you will also feel that desire to push yourself to grow outside of your old limits that you once had set for yourself.
I am not an over forceful Master but I am firm when need be!
The life style is not all about sex. The sexual part of this Lifestyle is only an erotic bonus to its higher purpose. It's the complete and concrete connection of a Master and slave-Sub on many levels. It is more of the stimulation's of the mind and heart. The trust that develops is far deeper than any two people may ever know.
To a Sub there is nothing more pleasurable then the giving of her soul to her Master for ownership.
When the Sub gives herself to her Master openly and freely then both the Master and the Slave should find great pleasure in this.
A Master should find this pleasurable in the way he has guided his slave correctly and the sub should find pleasure knowing she is Owned by her Master and has served him correctly.
That connection is the craving of all Sub's and of all Masters.
This isn't about a slave being a "doormat" quite the opposite. A Sub must be strong, intelligent, loyal, devoted, and completely willing to give of herself everyday to offer her Master His absolute pleasure in all of its forms.
As I stated above the sexual aspect of this relationship is a bonus.
I enjoy things that bring sensual pleasure while building you up to intense sensations of pleasure and pain within the limits that you wish to experience and explore. To me bring a slave to those point (s) are very much a turn on.
Once a Master and a Slave-Sub have built a solid foundation then the relationship should be a total exchange of power.
I understand each person has unique limits and I respect that. I believe that the pain used in a scene should be measured and productive. I do not believe in using pain without purpose.
In ending I am not looking for someone to play from time to time I am looking for a full time/long term upbeat positive Master-Slave/Sub relationship. If you would like to know more just ask.
ps. I love to cook and make a kick butt lazanga. Also enjoy spending time on the water. Drop me a note and we can talk.
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Some of you have read my personal journal that I do not share online with everyone and have asked me to post it here. I will not do that but I am posting just some general thoughts that I felt needed to be addressed after reading some profiles and journals on here over the last few days.
I personally have found that there is no deeper relationship then that of Master and Slave-submissive. But I was kind of shocked about what I read today when it comes to some journals.I have been reading different journals today. I have realized how many journals are filled with nothing more then tying someone to a bed, whipping them and then having sex with them. For that you do not need to be a Slave or even a Sub. Nor do you need to even find a Master because any moron can tie you to a bed and beat the shit out of you.To truly understand this life style and to truly cherish this life style a Master must understand it is more then just sex. As I stated in my profile as to whom I am and what I am looking for I state that sex is the icing on the cake. But for your Slave-Sub to truly give themselves to a Master for ownership and for a Master to truly except this great offer a Master must understand what it means to own, care and love a Slave-Sub.Each relationship is different and what You find will fill You. Even when the relationship is not involved sexually, there will still be an intimacy and companionship and love there. These things are well worth the wait and the time you take to learn. These things are not learned in hours, days, weeks, months or even years. These are learned over a life time!
A Master is always a strong, just Person. A Master will lead there slave-sub they have chosen to care for with all of their ability. In reward for their hard work, the Master will receive gifts from their slave-submissive. The Master will receive their slave-subs wills, their being, their knowledge, and their ability and passion, their soul, there heart there soul being. A good Master while receiving these gifts will watch and listen as these gift are given. The Master will then hear, know and feel he is doing his role as a loving and caring Master.
Don't take me wrong, I love the sex aspect of D's. I also believe in ownership of your property and I also believe in discipline your Slave-Sub when she is out of line, disrespectful or violating the rules of her Master. However, a good Master will also share in his pleasure with his Slave-Sub and not just in the bedroom. |
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Before you can have a successful relationship you must have HONESTY this is even more important in the D's lifestyle.
However, before you can be honest with anyone else you must be honest with yourself. Your first step should be self-discovery. "Do I know who I am". The first person you have to learn to be honest with is you! Once you learn self-honesty, you will find that honesty with others comes easier, like second nature. Self-honesty does not come easy when you first enter this lifestyle. There will be many things that tempt, intrigue, and even scare you. If you are new to this lifestyle, you won't know what you really want, but that will come in time with learning more about yourself. What are your good and your bad points? Learn to enhance your attributes but never hide the faults from YOUR Dom/Master. Some of us have faults that we really can't change, but most can be altered in some way or another. The key is to be honest with your Master/Dom and allow him to guide you and help you help. A GOOD Master/Dom with allow you to come to him for help and will NOT hold your faults/Weakness against you but will help you build, become stronger and face your fears and weakness. So the point being if you truly desire a good relationship you must be honest with yourself and your master/dom at all times. Because as long as you are holding back, not being open and honest you are hurting not only yourself but your relationship. | |
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ADVICE to ALL Subs and Slaves
OK, I am on one of my writing kicks again after reading an email and someone's journal. This is to all Sub and Slave. If you are talking to a Master or Dom and during the "FIRST" conversation "ALL" he wants to talk about is sex then WAKE UP he is not looking for a Slave or a Sub he is wanting a whore. The most important thing to a TRUE Master/Dom is your Submission. A true Master/Dom will be wanting to talk about you and your wanting to be a submissive/slave, your growth, your service, what you expect and so on. Now don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with him or you talking about sex the first conversation but if that is "ALL" he wants to talk about then you are not talking to a real dom/master nor are you talking to someone that wants your true submission. You are talking to someone that wants a whore. So do not be shocked if you meet this person and he uses you then throws you to the road side when someone news comes along. Because it WILL HAPPEN. |
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