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| Okay.. I will try to make my profile as simple yet complete as possible without making it sound like a “BDSM Curriculum Vitae” of everything I did and everyone I met this past 20 years.. :P
I have been involved in different relationships through my adult life that had different levels of D/s to them. The level has varied with time and as I learned more about myself and what I really wanted through those experiences and relationships. Even though I’ve been around kinky people for the past 2 decades I still consider myself relatively “fresh”.. I am reasonably experienced in some areas but still am learning and educating myself in many others.. I don’t think I will ever see the day where I’ll consider myself “experienced”. There’s just too much I want to learn to fit in one lifetime :) But still as much as I like to learn I enjoy sharing where I think I can :)
My journey so far has been a rather unusual one (like most people LOL). Like I mentioned above, I’ve been in several relationships, including a 4-year live-in one. Then I took a backstep from it when I became a single mother to the most amazing and smart kid in the world :) Then 2 years ago, while I was still not seeking any relationships, I met Merlin_Sorcerer who is now my Master, my friend and my “guiding light” at times.. :)
As for the inevitable labels, I’ll make that short plain and simple. I am submissive by orientation and slave is my relationship status. To be honest I don’t fancy either terms, mostly because english is not my first language and the direct translation for both words have rather negative connotations to them. And also because I don’t like people and relationships to be defined in just one or few words.. Knowing that someone is a “slave” or “bottom” or “Master” does not tell me what make them tick, laugh, cry, smile… I’m more interested in what’s underneath things than how they are presented.
As for my “vanilla” interests, it’s like for anything else: changing, evolving.. At the moment, I’m mostly into geeking and tweaking around my computer, cooking, watching movies, reading.. I enjoy also PC games and am a major Youtube Addict :D
So here I am on CollarMe. I joined mainly to lurk and read and hopefully learn a couple things along the way :) I’m open to friendships and discussion with anyone regardless of gender, status and opinions/beliefs.
So this is me in just a few words.. :) If there's anything significant that I missed I will update or add it to this profile.. If you’re curious about anything just message me and ask :)
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