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NickiLocks

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Welcome to my new profile. I decided since I have discovered more of who I am and what I am seeking that I would update a few things. First and foremost, I identify as an alpha sub. To me that means I have a strong, alpha personality in my vanilla life and I am submissive when kink and any future dynamics I have are concerned. I also have brat and occasional little tendencies. My main kink is bondage and I am an aspiring rope bunny. I am somewhat of an exhibitionist, I love posting pictures of the new body I have achieved with a current 72 pounds gone. One big discovery that I have made in my journey so far is that I am heteroflexible, which to me means that I am sexually attracted to women and would have sex with women, but I do not wish to be in a relationship with a woman. I have starting seeing my labels as more of a Venn Diagram of Kink. While we pull different components from several labels, no one really fills in a circle completely and some have several over lapping traits. So my Venn Diagram of Kink Label is Alphasubbratlittleropebunnyexhibitionistheteroflexible
sapiosexualredheadedcurvystudent of kink.

A little about me, Im a single mom of 1 kid. I am in the medical field. I love reading, cooking, variety puzzles and throwing darts in dive bars. Im pretty laid back and chill. Id rather eat at a hole in wall than a 5 star restaurant. I am obsessed with 90s alternative music. I love all animals, but cats are my spirit animals. I am very sapiosexual, I am drawn to intelligent people not just as lovers and partners, but as friends as well. If you have ever been described as a nerd or geek or dork, chances are we will get along.

While I am actively seeking a Dom, Im not going to just submit to any Dom. If you choose to contact me, please be respectful and polite. I get that I have several fetish features, Im a redhead with huge boobs and curves and a mommy tummy but I am also a human being with feelings and emotions who does not want to be seen as a fetish dispenser. I do not accept friend requests unless we have meet previously or you message me first and I like what you have to say. Please check my list of fetishes and limits below before contacting me.

Things I am not looking for hookups, joining your poly relationship, being your unicorn or Domme. I tend to mess with those who ask me stupid questions, you have been warned.

I have started a blog, this is my of journalling. The link is below and while is is very vanilla at the present time, the kink will be discussed soon enough.


Results from bdsmtest.org ***updated 12222018***
100 Submissive
100 Brat
100 Rope bunny
68 Exhibitionist
60 Masochist
56 Vanilla
53 Primal (Prey)
52 BoyGirl
52 Voyeur
50 Experimentalist
37 Slave
27 Degradee
5 Non-monogamist
3 Pet
2 Primal (Hunter)
2 Ageplayer
1 Brat tamer
0 Rigger
0 DaddyMommy
0 Dominant
0 Degrader
0 Owner
0 MasterMistress
0 Sadist
0 Switch