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I have been here before, I am not new. Im looking Australia wide, hopefully COVID restrictions relax.
Dont judge a book by its cover! This is something that I find very frustrating especially in the kink and alternative lifestyle world. Please dont be one those people that judge a profile based on just what they see in front of them, or judge on physical appearance alone, you might find that person behind the profile has more to offer you than you might think. Whilst I have made an effort to make my profile attractive to a targeted audience, I have intentionally left out parts about who I am and things that I enjoy. Those particulars can be found out whilst getting to know me and learning about each other. Put in a little effort to learn about the person youre speaking with, it could be the tipping point of something amazing..
A bit about me
Single
1.78m, Little chubby currently - I am working on it
Submissive, not a slave (some slave tendencies though)
Literate
Non smoker
Respectful
Open minded
Versatile
Somewhat private and reserved
Extremely open with kinks and sexual interests (I never judge, and If your interest is not in my interest list, just ask - your kink could possibly end up being my kink too)
Professionally employed
Dependable
Doer and hands on
Sex and body positive
Gender positive - I dont restrict on sexual orientation - Hence my orientation of Pan-sexual. However I am primarily attracted to assertive Dominant women.
Politically neutral for the most part
What do I seek?
Im primarily looking for a Dominant female (Insert your appropriate label here) for an ongoing and preferably long term relationship. Whether that is only Ds based or a Vanilla based relationship as well is most definitely open for discussion. My preference is to find that long term and loving partner for all aspects, not just kink. However In saying that, I am also open to shorter term arrangements and keeping it kink and friendship based only, it all depends on the chemistry, both life goals, directions and desires. I am certainly submissive and enjoy the control of a Dominant lady in many varying aspects, I am open to this being not limited to just the bedroom or sex life within reason.
I have a lot to offer for the right person and im sure to not bore you or become mundane, i like to explore and keep the relationship alive and fun. I realize that there is an abundance of submissive men looking for a small availability of Dominant women and that the odds are not really all that good, however Im hoping I can stand out just enough to capture your attention )
I am not limiting myself to just looking for a FLR type relationship although it is my goal. I am open to any gender and even couples for whatever may be.
Im also looking for friendship and general conversation. I will meet in person and in public once were both comfortable. I am not here to ghost anyone or chicken out.
What am I Not looking for?
Quick hook ups
Misguided situations
Putting ones safety in jeopardy
Sex - I am quite happy having no penetrative sex, period (me giving, however if my Dominant requests it, I am fine with it).
Wank material
Time wasting ghosting bread crumbing
Fake people
Fetishes and interests
Ill update this in more detail later, See my fetish list for a broad range of what Im into but here are some of the main things I have experience with and enjoy but not limited to
Chastity - Long term is certainly appealing
Submissive training (get into my head and push me deeper)
Pegging all anal play
PVC, Latex, rubber, lace
Restrictive bondage predicament
Sensual play
Servitude - Sexual and non-sexual
Sensory deprivation
Waxing wax play
Queening face sitting smothering arse worship
Sissification (Not a must have and fully understand this is not appealing to many Dommes)
High heels
Gas masks light breath play
Humiliation and degradation (I know this is not everyones cup of tea)
Mind fucks
Manipulation (the good kind)
Mental reconditioning (train me to be into the things you want)
Plus many more
To add further clarity on myself and not having penetrative sex, as Ive been asked this in the past. The way it works in my head is that I find it to be a very Dominant thing to do, that is having penetrative sex with a Dominant lady. I feel the humiliation and sub space it brings me from the denial of intercourse to be extremely powerful and erotic - this does extend to oral intercourse as well. Whilst Im not opposed to having penetrative intercourse with my partner, I think it should be done in the most submissive and humiliating way possible if it were to happen. At the end of the day, this would all be up to my Dominant to decide what happens.
Hard limits
Kids Minors (Shouldnt need to say it)
Bestiality Animals
Blood play
Extreme heavy pain play, sorry im no masochist but im open to exploring it in a light - medium manner
Unsafe play - Breach of consent
Drug use
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