Collarspace.com

You may be wondering about the name...we'll explain.  It is our tribute to the idea that the most essential aspect of D/s lies within the brain.  You can put on a collar and restraints but that does not make you a submissive.  You can put on a leather vest and carry a paddle but that does not make a Dom(me).  For some BDSM is a fashionable pursuit and for some it is a celebration of part of who and what they actually are.  We could stand naked in front of you and that wouldn't change who we are.

That being said it is only part of us and our lives.  We do not live it 24/7, we think if we did it could become like a career or vocation and possibly lead to burnout.  We prefer to enjoy it as spice and seek to maximize our fun for as long as possible.  However, we also realize that for some 24/7 is the correct amount and we have no problem with that.  Someone who is just being themselves, whether part-time or full-time, is what we respect and admire.

We are on this site primarily to find new, local people in the hopes of meeting them in person, and then eventually finding out if there are some exciting fetishistic pursuits we can enjoy together.  If there are then great, if not we still potentially may be friends.  We take no very well...because we occasionally say it ourselves.  We are not interested in online lifestyle pursuits, it is just not our thing as we have tasted the excitement of real flesh.  For us this site will remain a communication and networking tool, not one of gratification.

We will consider meeting those who are vacationing here.  There is a multitude of exciting and interesting people out there and we have no wish to prevent ourselves from meeting them.  We live in a very popular vacation destination and refuse to look this gift horse in the mouth.  If you are planning a trip to central Florida and we appear interesting to you we would be amenable to discussing the possibilities of meeting and seeing where it leads.

We are a Dom/Domme couple and as such expect to be treated respectfully.  To us that means honesty.  Life is too short to deal with poseurs and fakes.  The pursuits we seek require a trusting relationship.  If one develops it can be destroyed by some small dishonesty discovered down the road.

Pictures...we like, no -- we love pictures.  But we are not mainly interested in your naughty bits.  Everyone has them, there are only a couple of options and all the rest are variations on a theme.  We like creative pictures that say something about you.  Perhaps they won't say a full thousand words but if all they say is dick, pussy or asshole we probably won't see beyond that.  If the naughty bits are creatively displayed then bring them on.

Bio
Him - for ten years he worked for an adult video company.  He is experienced in video camera operation, video editing, still image editing and digital graphic art layout.  What started out as a fun job eventually became an unenjoyable job.  He parted ways when the company was sold and moved out of Florida.  He now keeps these creative pursuits mostly for his own hobby enjoyment while picking and choosing from occasional freelance work opportunities.  He has started to do his own still camera work.

His work led to an intellectual understanding of the lifestyle and the past two years have seen practical experience added to the theoretical.  He is still learning but expects to do so until he takes his final breath.

He enjoys his creativity greatly and likes to offer those services to those within the lifestyle.  If the project is for a personal or non-profit motive he sees no need to charge.  If they are for a commercial profit pursuit he has very reasonable freelance fees.

Her - she brings over 10 years lifestyle experience to the couple.  She has been a switch in the past but now only chooses to sub for him.  Don't ask, it's not going to happen.  She is a Domme for everyone else.  She is bisexual, and expects to participate in any play between him and another female.  Female subs should be prepared to serve both of Us.  

If you are in any way collared or owned we expect any initial contact to be through your Dom/me.  We certainly guard 'our space' and have no desire to disrespect or invade another's space [though we enjoy peeking if they are at all exhibitionistic...but we'll do it respectfully and any praise we give will be honest].  If your profile contains instructions to contact you through your Dom/me, we most certainly will.

If you are not beholden to anyone and are seeking a Dom/Domme couple in central Florida we would ceryainly like to hear from you.  We are not offering a 24/7 position but would prefer someone looking for regular but time-limited activities.  


You should contact us if:
-you live in central Florida and you think our interests intersect, whether for friendship or play
-you are planning to visit central Florida and you think our interests intersect, whether for friendship or play
-you would like to inquire about some of his creative services mentioned above

You should not contact us if:
-you cannot separate your vanilla life from your chocolate life
-you cannot present yourself in an honest fashion
-you have not read our entire profile. you will be tested.
-you are only interested in one or the other of Us.  We are partners in crime.