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Got started in kink because an ex-gf revealed to me that she was a sub and I had no idea what that was. So I did research and we learned and explored together. That was over 10 years ago now.

Since then I have discovered what I like and want, and also what I enjoy and am good at doing. I am tall, lean and good looking. Most women rate me an 8 out of 10. I have a Look, which usually brings me up to a 9.

I am a natural Dominant, which only means that what you see is what you get, I dont turn it on or off, its just who I am. What sets me apart from other Doms is that Im a giver, not a taker. So I want to know what you like, enjoy and turns you on. And I will incorporate those things into what we do together.

I believe firmly in consent and negotiations, for those that are new, or inexperienced, this can be an odd experience, but its well worth it. I recommend that anyone on this site make sure that they give and receive consent for all play.

This is the unfortunate side of kink - but I have stopped play, or sex with more women - than most men have had the opportunity. If I stop play or sex, it is only because consent is a question and I would rather just stop then have a problem later. Some women in the past, have gotten really bent out of shape about this - calling me a liar, and saying that i promised to do certain things - but I am serious when it comes to consent. If you are the type of person who is looking for a 1 night stand, then just pass this profile by. I am not in this for a 1 time thing - so to me - stopping play for now, is more important to me, so we can build trust and understanding. We will see each other again, unless you want a 1 night stand.