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First and foremost, I am not a skinny woman.. if you are into skinny women, keep looking. I have pictures, but will not just have my picture out there for everyone to see. If we are chatting, I will be happy to send one. I will NOT send naked photos, and I expect not to see your junk right away either. If you ASK you WILL be ignored or deleted.
If you are into online only Domination.. keep looking. That is also not me.
I have been out of the scene for a long time. I was in a LTR with a poly household and a main sub for several years and none of it worked out. I stopped being a part of the lifestyle and scene to learn about myself before deciding if this is really where I am meant to be.
Since then, I have learned even more. I have tried to be someone I'm not and left the lifestyle, thinking that regular living would be enough. It wasn't.
I have learned that all relationships no matter what kind, need to start with Friends first. People have become so backwards that sex is first, then everything else. That does not sustain a relationship of any sort.
My life has been unfulfilled not having my wonderful D/s people in it. I met so many awesome people of all kinds in this lifestyle, and I miss talking with others, learning new things, and forever being on the hunt to better myself. Not only as a person, a woman, but also as a Dominant to which I have never been any less of.
I will not be anything other than myself. I am not a sadist. That is not to say I don't like giving a certain amount of pain "evil grin" but I am not into major bruising and breaking skin. What I may choose not to do in one area, I certainly make up for in creativity in other areas.
I prefer the D/s relationship. Friends first!! The edgeplay, the relationships that hold bonds between a Dominant and submissive. Those bonds are something no whip can break. Those bonds are something amazing and I believe can be even stronger than a marriage certificate. Those bonds are deep to the core.
I do not want a needy submissive. By saying that, I mean one that can entertain themselves and not pout when I leave for work or other things in my life without them. I am a very busy woman, and want a real submissive. One that will submit only to me, and able to be in public without causing a display, and one that does not need micromanagement. I will find the right one, male or female, that will fit together with me. I have had alot of needy people in my life and it's a turn off. I want someone to speak their mind, say what's on it and not be afraid, though respectfully.
I want someone that works a job and does not expect me to pay their bills or their way for them. I can finance myself, you should be able to also. (that doesn't mean surprises won't happen) I want someone even half as driven as I am to achieve more in life.
I want someone clean! Don't come to me with diseases, I don't have any, and I intend to keep it that way.
I believe two people should be able to talk candidly about what they want. Otherwise you go into it unsure. Spend some time talking for awhile, take some time and don't rush it. See if things progress.
If you have made it this far.. congratulations! message me, we can chat. I love meeting new people.. even as friends.
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