OMG!!! Some of the straight male Doms on here look too old to bend over let alone dominate.  I don't mean to be unkind but come on guys.   Oh hell, I will put a regular pic on here, nothing kinky. How can you call yourself a Domme ladies when you are lying down with your ass showing, lol. You mean your just looking for a few bucks and a fuck. Excuse my language, lol. I want to say at this time I can't have anyone live in, I am in a high- rise 1 bedroom apart. So it doesn't make much sense if you can't be within driving distance.  Though many have driven from the whole metro area, MD, NY, CON, PA and NJ. Hotels are pretty inexpensive around here, but it doesn't seem practical to get involved with someone so far away. 

I will send my picture to private addresses after we have chatted a bit and I see I am interested. I am not really looking for just play time, which most of you are. No judgement about that. Just the facts. I would meet you for dinner in public, get to know you and then if we mutually agree to go further then we will. No underage kids please, some of you do lie about your age, come on!!    Everyone enjoys young bodies, that's natural, but no pedophile here, lol.  I especially like East Indians and Asian males. My skin is so pale, your darker skin is a turn on. Especially with my white foot in your mouth.  I do enjoy playing, but understand that does not automatically mean anything sexual. Unless I stuff a strap-on in your skinny little , :-D .   I am D+D free, expect the same.  I have had an HIV test an am negative. I have the paperwork with the results.  I am a health professional.  Again and I emphasize this, unless your dress and hygiene meet my standards, clean nails, clean teeth, etc. etc. Not even considered. Whether I play with you or not is just a case by case thing. I wish some of the dumb asses on here would realize that I am not here to meet your expectations or what you want. I am the Domme, if you want some little dumbass to do what you want while pretending to be a Domme in a leather skirt or something that's fine. But it is not me, I am the one in charge, understand that. All 260 pounds of me you little bitch. Remember that.

Word..... for the young people on here who are new to the lifestyle, don't just trust any Domme or Dom without getting to know them. I know of young people who are going to people's houses and not knowing the person, not telling anyone where they are going and using no safeguards. Not very smart. ALWAYS, tell someone where you are going and have a check in point. There are dangerous people in this lifestyle. Most are not, but don't bet your life on it.   Next, don't lie about your experience or lack of, This lifestyle has to have a basis of trust, if you lie you are already deemed untrustworthy. For the men who don't know what domination truly is, find out first. The Domme is not there to please you or fulfill your fantasy and it truly is not about sex, it's power play. Sex may or may not be a part of that. You are there to please the Domme.  

That cage sure came in handy at times, I remember a picture I took with a subbie yolked up by his collar inside the cage not able to lie down even, he stayed there all night. Wet too, I will let you guess wet with what. Of course having the subby sleep on my feet at the end of the bed to keep them warm on a winters night was nice too. I have many nice memories, them licking my feet under the desk while I worked on my computer, washing the floor naked on hands and knees very available for a sharp squeeze if he wasn't moving along. Or a grab of the collar and slap in the face.  I like my floors very clean, not just a quick swipe.  I have to say I am strict but fair.  I may have even mellowed a little over time. I also like maternal domination, but naughty babies get a spanking with their pants down, sometimes if they are reallyyyyyyy naughty they have to bring me a switch. they look so cute with their eyes down bringing the switch and saying they are sorry. You know what I mean, the big eyes, lol. 

Well, I haven't written a journal for sometime and I do enjoy writing on most occasions. I sold my house and took an apt in a high rise, unfortunately some of my toys had to go. I particularly enjoyed the queening stool with the chained in neck collar. More then once my sub spent whole nights in there, lol.  My nice big cage I didn't have room for either. But the apt is so much less to deal with then a 4 bedroom house which I no longer had use for. Perhaps I should have taken a  2 bedroom condo by the beach instead. I do like the mountains, but PA is not exactly avant-garde. NYC was fun, but I thought the mountains would be nice. They are okay, but now I think about the beach. Perhaps I am a restless spirit. I am a widely diverse person, university educated and enjoy intelligence, and conversation. Especially when a sub speaks when spoken to or allowed. It is nice to set a schedule, because then the sub knows what to expect and can complete certain duties within a reasonable time frame. Of course in today's world it is not easy to find a reliable, honest , person. More then once a sub found out the consequences of lying to me.  I still laugh when I remember a sub begging to leave and running out the back door with his jeans down after telling me he was experienced and was a rube, lol. Naturally I can tell when someone lies to me or is not properly respectful, which is why I prefer experienced subs. I so enjoy that look when I slap his face and tell him to get moving on whatever errand I have. Don't think by this I don't have a heart, I do, but my love needs to be earned. I can be very kind. 

 I do like art, the opera, theater, poetry and fine dining. I was spoiled by NYC I think, I loved the metropolitan, and the wonderful restaurants.