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So, after being on this site, on and off (mostly off) for a while, and having met some very cool people (and some very not coolcreepy people), I find that I need to be more specific in describing what it is that I am looking for and what brought me on this site. In order for me to successfully be able to do that, you need to know a little more about me and what makes me tick.
About me- I am honest, fairly intelligent, good communicator, straight forward, loyal, playful, love to kiss, love to cuddle, and I just so happen to have a kinky side. I am confident in myself and my abilities but it is truly about the journey and the mistakes that we make that allow us to continue to learn and grow. So, lets get back to my kinky side, because lets be honest, thats what you really want to know about. I like to be worshipped and put on a pedestal, what woman doesnt? I like the service aspects of the lifestyle from cooking and cleaning to massages, to shaving me. I want there to always be a cock hard and ready for me. I love orgasm control, spanking with various s but only for pleasure I dont leave permanent marks or draw blood. Im not looking to break a subs spirit in order to submit to me, on the contrary, I think that through compassion, communication, patience and, with trust that is built over a period of time, that the sub will be able to better serve me, which in turn will be beneficial for him (winwin). I dont like to yell and scream and again, I enjoy training using pleasure (or the absencedelay of) as opposed to humiliation and degradation Im what is referred to as a Sensual Domme. I believe that we are constantly growing and evolving and while I do have some very hard limits, I am open to learning and trying more things within the lifestyle.
What Im looking for- I am ultimately looking for a true partner. I would like to build the mental connection either through online or on the phone, develop a friendship, meet in person and see where it goes from there, but the goal is to find a long term relationship with play incorporated into it. From the outside looking in, we would appear to be a normal couple you would be every bit the man, but what happens inside stays inside. My ideal sub is a man (not a boy) who is honest, intelligent, strong, confident, good communicator, caring someone who is willing to grow with me and make me a better Domme for him. I have always been the Dominant one in my previous relationships however they werent defined as a Ds relationship (they were vanilla with some kink thrown in), so being on this site and actively seeking a partner that understands the lifestyle is new to me. Having said that, whoever I choose to be with has to understand that there will be bumps in the road along the way, its not always going to be rainbows and roses, but getting through those bumps together will ultimately make our connection stronger. Together, we should be complimenting each others lives, not complicating them.
What Im not looking for- I am not looking to take anyones money or have anyone take mine (Im hearing that a lot on here). In case you missed it in the paragraphs above, I am not looking for a mindless toy or plaything and Im not looking for a quick lay or scene (once I allow the relationship to get physical, I am monogamous) and Im sorry to say that men in womens clothing does absolutely nothing for me no judgement, just not for me.
One of my favorite profiles that I have run into on here had a really good closing statement that I loved and very much mirrors what I want so Im going to conclude my profile by quoting his (Iknow he doesnt mind). I wont make you the center of my world, fuck that. I will BUILD a world centered around you! All I expect is some patience, some trust and a whole lot of fun in between for both of us.
Any questions?
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