One Sentence Wonders!  I now seem to get polite subs, reading, then sending me a question.  Like, "How are you today, Ma'am?"  I guess I will have to start to require a paragraph before I respond at all.

I have just changed my policy.  Anyone who writes without first reading My short paragraph is blocked.  Unreal what you get unsolicited!

All I want for Christmas is for males to grab their cocks, jack-off, then write me right afterwards and see if they still want to kiss my feet and have me torture their balls.

Or they may read their note first before hitting the send button.  I may be a Dominatrix but I'm also a person who must enjoy a portion of you to converse, shoving a Ben-Gay coated dildo in your ass is mostly funny, but now all I need from a slave.

Have a Great Day!

Ms Eileen

I am training My new slave with another Mistress and we are doing it for the Wife/Owner.  Hope to have some tight restraint and strict discipline.  If you have any ideas, please write to me.

If some of you males would consider the fact that each of us only has 24-hours in our days, maybe some of your requests would become less self centered.  I refuse to become a nasty bitch to people, I will quit the site first.  But before you just write me and ask to be my slave, or suggest you will do this or that for me, read what I seek, then if you still think you should write me go ahead.

I get too many males offering me their service online.  Some are rude, others are nice, neither are solicited by Me.  This is my answer to a nice sub who approached Me with a offer to serve.  This answer sums up my thoughts on online service.

"

I appreciate your reading and willingness.  However, My experience with attempting to gain any personal satisfaction from online control has proven the endeavor all but fruitless.  Nowhere in My profile do I suggest otherwise.  My suggestion for you is to find a Dominant within 100-150 miles away, closer if possible.  A Lady that close may have more interest in some online which can be mixed with real time.

Best of Luck.

Ms Eileen"

Been getting about 40-percent reading my description properly.  Not sure if I should block those who do not, or just ignore them.  Two or three were just plain rude, and others full of themselves.

I've just started blocking those people who are too lazy to read to the end of My narrative description.  I don't like to, and it makes me sad for our community.  I hate to lose the beauty of healthy D/s relationships and the joy and pleasure we can build together.  I just can't stomach the lazy males who do not read.  I'm not counting those who show no respect.  Maybe 2013 will be better!

I have been nice to a handful of male subs, evening meeting one in a public place, with a friend of mine with me of course, and really I have only had one or two be nasty, several don't take a hint well, but please, I don't change my name or my mind, if you have written me and we have moved on, check before you send me another request, see if I have already responded to you.  I get this too much, the same person writes 4-6 weeks later as if we have never communicated.

Anyway, I will keep my positive outlook and wish everyone well.

And if, you are going to write me, and you are male, please masturbate first, then write, that is if you still feel the need!

Ms Eilleen

It must be getting cold, yea, that's it.  There can be no other reason that I would seek communication from Femdom Couples or Femdom's for my own interests, but get 50/1 responses from males who are unowned.  I'm nice to some, but starting to get plenty of the crude offers, one time I think I will take one up, and see if he shows up.

To those who read, Thank You!

I don't know where time goes, not really, I want to spend more time with My online friends but the end of summer days have required my attention elsewhere.  I did cuff my slave to a tree while I went on a long walk, he was not naked though, it was a public walking trail.  He was quite upset afterwards.  An emotion for which I required a sincere apology for later that evening, an apology which also required some outside influence, there was some defiance from him, something I had not seen in about a year.

My training has become a little more intense and another public trail cuffing is in his future, this time I will stay with him and make him speak to Women if they want, I will sit on a bag chair nearby with a dog trainer on his balls, and hopefully there will be some Sisters who want a giggle and press the button, this should show him a different side of humiliation.

I will not be able to get him to put his arms around a tree again, but I plan on cuffing him at home, putting on elastic waisted shorts, pull a shirt over him, hood him, and the trainer on his balls, and of course a collar and leash.  he will think he is on his way to a friends for storage while I play, but soon he will smell the outdoors and realize I am walking my dog.

This should be fun, plus I will really be a BITCH to him, I hate defiance, and I am embarrassed it happened.

My new slave is training well.  I may not be needing a male slave much longer!

I have taken on MY first online slave, she is sweet.

Almost forgot, I have seen two female slaves in the past four months.  One was excellent the other was not really ready.  I require My female slaves to sustain prolonged restraint where they can contemplate their status too.  Both had a hard time building up their mental control to endure 5-6 hours hooded and in a straight jacket.  Sorry, but I can't sleep with new friends "loose" in my house.  Please think about it before you ask for it.  I am very nice, but when it comes to the actual training, I must maintain My standards, I am STRICT.

Ms Eileen

I am looking for some female slaves to assist me.  I will only need 1-2 hours of time in the assistance capacity.  They are to write orders online to some of my male slaves.  Perhaps I can use a couple of Domme Ladies also.  I seek to have a training course for lifestyle practitioners, but with compassion.  Still in the early stages, but I have some students already.  Write me if you are pretty smart and have 1-2 hours a week to write.

Ms Eileen

Tonight, I had two of three messages were sincere and one sub actually got me excited, not sure why, it reminded me of one of Akasha's stories.  I'm embarrassed, I got wet!  A fun evening was had by all.  

I will not say who this submissive was, but here is my response....

"Hello,

I am a little curious at getting a "Friend" request out of the blue with no prior contact or anything for which to base a friendship.  Please consider giving a little more respect to the meaning of the word and a tiny bit more respect to others, Domme or sub.  I will not banish your profile from contacting me, but please do not diminish the community by cheapening what it means to be a friend.  Perhaps we will become friends, but that takes at least some common interests and something more than an impersonal friend-request without any contact prior.  Please think a little deeper.

Ms Eileen"

Was I too harsh?

Okay, I recently opened  a request to serve me and it was five words, that's it.  "May I be your subject?"  It was not directly rude, but it was because there was no effort, not even a few sentences.  No "Dear Ms... ... or Respectfully slave x"

I was nice as possible but declined of course.  Please give a few moments effort and thought when writing me, I will do the same.

Ms Eileen

I'm asking for it, but if any of you slaves have the capacity to answer honestly please offer your perspective on the following scenario.

If you have been restrained while taking pain, whip, cane, electrical, just any sort of moderate to severe pain, do you sometimes or often, pretend it hurts more than it really does so you get less of it?  Do you start begging early, crying early, straining to get out early, before it really is unbearable?

I am trying to learn where and when that point comes.  The point when the restraint is needed because you would no longer sit and take it, the point when sensuality leaves and pain creates fear and sometimes anger.  The point when you would be dangerous if you were not effectively restrained.

If any Women who are experienced in giving this type of pain and discipline can provide any insight I would deeply appreciate any hints or pointers.

Thank You.

Ms Eileen

I want to say Thank You to the wonderful people I have been learning from and friends close and distant.  Hope everyone is well and getting what they deserve!

Sometimes I answer a note from a male submissive because they were nice or had some angle which was a slight interest.  Then they push and push, in the past 4-months or so I have met three, two of those got cold feet, one still has my personal attention, but the other 9 have been put out because I did not give them attention in the way they wanted.

To those few males who read and respect I hope you get what you need, but to those pushy jack masters just go and play with yourself, please.

My last two photos show my solution to my restrained slave getting thirsty and or needing to pee during the night.  If you are interested in the brands of catheter or techniques just ask. 

Oops, almost over.  I don't even think it's right to allow a male slave to view a female slave, not in my dungeon anyway.

I won't be making any fans with this post.  But is it me or are there far too many "Dominant Women" showing photos of themselves almost naked or showing their breasts as a form of showing their what? Dominance?

I think if you are Dominant you don't expose personal body parts to potential slaves online.  It undermines the idea that you are Dominant of anything.

My slaves never get to see me, they are hooded, blindfolded, or looking at the ground.  Only once in a great while will a glimpse occur.  Not that I am special or different than any other Woman, but I am in control.  It makes me think there are pretenders.  Sad if you ask me.

Rant over...

WOW some males think their cock is unique and a photo is needed.  You boys don't need more than one on your profile.  I get the idea, 3D imaging is not required.

I was reading through some of the profiles and I see some who claim things like....

"Hi, I'm a bisexual male switch."  What the hell is this?  Cock's gone wild?  Man or Woman top or bottom I'll fuck anything is how it reads to me.  What do you think?

CHASISOK is a "sub male" and a complete jerk.  Not a real sub, but if anyone wants to see his vile emails to me I will get you copies.  he is just a wackmaster and a waste of time, I gave him some time and he totally abused it.  I hope the next few subs are better that that jerk.  I should have known better than to respond to a new profile with almost nothing completed.  My Bad!

I'm sorry for the pic quality.  I will work on this.  Have a great day!

Please help, anyone who has experience with gags please tell me what is the most effective gag system for say 30-minutes.  I will not leave slave alone, but I need to administer some treatments which may make him make lots of noise.  We have people in the complex and need to minimize the noise.

Thank You!

Eagerboypuppy

is not really submissive.  I will take this down with an apology written on his profile.

Sorry boys!  A second male has flunked out.  he pretended to be submissive when he did not get his way he sent me this vile message and then blocked me from responding.  It was a sour grapes thing so I will not give you his Screen name unless you ask me.  He may have tried, but he did not follow easy instructions, and I gave him over three chances.  I told him he needed six months before I would consider him again and he went ape shit.  he must not have been serious in the first place.  I had even given him some online training and advice.

This is what make so many Ladies nutty!

Wiggle, Wiggle, Wiggle.... That's all the movement he can do, it's so cute.  he better learn to relax and go to sleep otherwise it will be a long night.  Catheter and drinking tube are in place so he really needs nothing.  WEG

To the cock in hand males who write me without reading my profile at all, then write a nice but short note like, "Hello Ma'am, How are you today?"  or anything like it, just don't do it.  It only confirms the stereotype that all males are dirt dumb and good for nothing.  Jack off first, then read my profile, then if you have anything to say, make it interesting and I will probably respond.  I don't want to become a total bitch but I can understand the decision, I was hoping to maintain some kind of respect for subs.  Please read, before you write. 

Note to Ladies, Beware!  Don’t waste your time.

I dislike writing this but I see it as a responsibility.

I was nice to this person even though he did not read my profile, instant messaged me several times without permission, and then became hostile when I politely declined training.

Users;  Novice1954 = bondage2008 = dimples53 = Loaferman

“From Novice1954:  1/9/2012 8:07AM: so you can not help her so your not real  hehehe your all fucking talk now block me”

and again at “10:20AM Novice1954 writes: fuck you you could not do it hehehe”

People who are demanding and rude give this site a bad name.  Pretending to be submissive then cussing you out.

From the “Switch” Novice1954 (profile message 1-9-2012)

I am very outgoing,caring,soft,and can be very romantic.  I love to talk,and yes, I even like to shop.. At this Point in my life I would love to find that special woman who is Adventurous and let me  reduce her to the point that she can   give Herself emotionally and physically to me !!!!!..
I have been told that be very adventurous and spontaneous person,and willing to try almost anything once.. I have a very positive outlook.
I was meant to be lived to its fullest with that special friend each and every day.. I am particular about my appearance and expect the same from that special. I want her to also have a positive outlook on life and I want her to   let me teach her this way of life.. one who loves to find her key to life and turn it ever so so slow .. and in turn reduce Her to give her the joy....of  Life.
Are you Spontaneous..Flexible, are you ready for that special Endorphin RUSH  !!!!

DO you Like NEW SHOES.!!!!
If interested please send me a note .. thanks

The gentlemen has another profile too, in this one he is a “submissive”

59 year old shoe lover seeks shoe goddess

Thank you for reading this:

Writing is not one of my skills and this post has been hard to write.  I am very verbal in real life but I am very bad at typing out a gos letter, email or private message..  My apologies for this in advance.

Please allow me to introduce myself..  I am a 59 year old male submissive.. For a line time now I have been searching for ma mistress/Dominat female to whom I can offer devotion and worship on an excluse basis.  I would dearly love to form a long term relationship basec on this devotion and worship given time, encouragement and mutual agreement.

My Goddess:

like so many submissive men it is hard for me to mrelease. to relinquish control even though I desperatly want to.  A stronbg woman who is nice looking on the outside and on the inside who makes me want to earn her softness, her warmth, who can laugh and tease and take pleasure in the shoes that mI would offer to her could easily enslave me.  A woman who understands and enjoys my aching need to her to wear the nnew shoes that i will offer to her and use those shoes to tease me and torment me would easily steal my heart.  As special woman who will guide me will have my nheart and devotion forever..

My Qualities:

my friends consider me to be honest, compassionate, intelligent, spontaneous, enthusiastic with a big heart.

My interest:

I enjoy travel and like to do mthis at a leisurely pace.  A adore shoes if I am lucky enough to capture your interest, please PM me and I will provide a photo and contact details..

My comments regarding this deceptive person.  I believe this person is sincere in having a shoe fetish, but he challenges Women to “make” him be something he does not want to be, that is why he is 59 and still looking, in my view a pathetic soul who refuses to like what he is, denying something about himself he dislikes and takes it out on others.

I was extremely nice to him and he turned and in his “submissive” fashion told me to “fuck off” twice.  He should pay a pro, and be honest with himself instead of trying to manipulate lifestyle Dominants to taking him as a project, what a waste of time.  But of course his friends consider him to be “Honest”

I have done my part to warn the community.  I will not paint all subs with the same brush, but if you claim to be submissive, know your place and accept it.

MsEileen

Friday night slave was in straight jacket 5-hours, I was teasing and let go, but the electricity gave him an orgasm.  I did not want that, I will be more careful not to turn up the electricity when I am stroking him!  Another 5-hour session is coming his way this week.

I so much thought I would be different, and not bitchy, respect the sub's on the site...  Now I have discovered that most don't read profiles, others may read and not understand, and others just try to make you something you are not, wow, I'm turning into someone I'm not wanting to become.

So please read my profile.  No males without a verifiable FEMALE owner, no chat and I'm not going to take another slave.  I am not mad.  I am not mad. I am not mad. I am not mad. I am not mad. I am not mad. I am not mad. I am not mad. I am not mad. I am not mad. I am not mad. I am not mad. I am not mad. I am not mad. I am not mad. I am not mad. I am not mad.

Great, now I have convinced myself, I am not mad.

Found another pic, from 12/12  Posted number 5.

I have added three photos, two are my slave inside a sleep sack, with TENS on the genitals, two hours on high, he was almost numb, but I still got it to hurt.  Sorry about the quality, will improve it in future pics.  The third is an older picture, from early to mid 1980s, this Woman was ahead of her time.  She was in control and fully clothed, I just love it.  Anyone with any knowledge of that pic I would love to know, just for the history.  I will look, I have some more with her in black and white, She is my hero!  One of them.

Of course, Happy New Year.  My slave will be spending tonight in restraint all night.  Any Lady who would like to have a custom photo made for them of him in hooded restraint, with a sign honoring them, please contact me and tell me what you would like written on the sign.  I would ask you put them on your profile later so I can show him how he was in service as a prop for them.  Also, on the sign I will write most anything you like, have him in a CB-6000, or bound balls separated, inked, clamped, or zipped inside the straight jacked so you don't see them at all.  I will do the first several requests, if I get too many I may have to do them another time.

Eileen

Thanks to the respectful male subs who wrote me and stayed respectful.  Thought I would note that this evenings contacts were enjoyable.  Nobody was out of bounds and the stupid people seemed to pass me by.  Happy New Near, just a day early!

Last night my slave spend about three hours inside my straight jacket with hood.  About 15-20 minutes of the time he was thrashing to be let out and he was mad, I think...  Is this normal and will he get used to it?  Please don't answer this question if you don't have similar experiences or some expertise as a Dominant.

I want to thank those who have commented and sent encouraging messages.  I will be posting more pics and hope to make some vanilla friends as well as lifestyle friends.