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	`Black Magic Woman Seeks A submissive` `Lifestyle Dominant Black Female, single, 55+, a BBW and a NON-SMOKER. I’m looking for a special submissive NON-SMOKER,50+ years of age with the potential of becoming my slave. I am located in` `Northeastern Massachusetts` `on the NH Border. I do not do computer chat so I will expect to speak to you on the phone after we have covered the basics. This phone conversation is a PREREQUISITE for further communication. If this requirement is not acceptable to you then let us not waste each other's time.` `This is the “who” I am seeking in a sub. A person that knows they are a submissive.` `Someone that treasures and revels in the knowledge of their being a submissive. Someone that knows their submission is the greatest gift they can bring to a Dominant.` `This is the “what” I am seeking in a sub. The only physical characteristics that interest me are your ability to tell the truth, your integrity, your dependability, and your reliability. you will be expected to learn the art of anticipation, so that serving my desires will become second nature to you.` Your duties will include accompanying me as required. If relocation is necessary it may be done by either Domme or sub. Your devotion to me while expected will be rewarded by your being allowed to accompany me in both the vanilla and D/s world. If you understand this quote then perhaps you are the sub I am seeking. "Service which is rendered without joy helps neither the servant nor the served. But all other pleasures and possessions pale into nothingness before service which is rendered in a spirit of joy." ...Gandhi” . If this ad does not describe who you are now or are willing to become with training, do not waste my time by applying. KINDLY NOTE: This is not an ad for quick kinky sex play. I am not looking for a sex toy, sex slave, boy toy or any of the other euphemisms meaning a sexual play partner. This is an ad for a Dominance and submission relationship on a long term basis.

7/14/2011 10:35:32 AM

This is a note of caution to any Domme that is even thinking about accepting an encumbered sub. It is a reply to an email that I received from that "prospective" sub telling me that he was so intimidated over the phone.

Actually I do understand. Aside from my own principles, you are the classic, stereotypical reason why I don't get involved with MARRIED, ATTACHED or SEPARATED in the PROCESS OF BEING DIVORCED subs. To begin with most of you folks are only trying to get a little something on the side. Since you can't account for the money it would cost if you went to a Pro-Domme you decide to try something like CM. you are hoping that you will find a Domme that is so desperate to play that you will get basically a free session or play scene. Although I make it very clear from the outset, that I do not get involved BDSM wise with attached people, selective, hearing kicks in and you do not accept what I said even though you heard me say it. Apparently, I finally managed to make it clear that the only thing I could offer you (per your request in the guise of friendship) was a dinner companion and some BDSM knowledge that a "newbie" can use. If I had said "come on down and we will have a scene/session I bet your "intimidation" would have vanished. The only thing your "crackling voice" and dropped call tell me is that you have a REALLY, REALLY lousy service provider. you did not disappoint. you did exactly what I expect from people like you. Back to the first and second sentences. Thanks for the segue!

5/30/2011 11:44:26 AM

Is there a record for the number of idiots, liars, wanna-be's, gamers and just plain jerks that can contact you in a day? Because I think I've just broken that record.

5/26/2011 9:16:27 AM

Here it is May 2011 and I'm still saying the same thing. I DON'T DO COMPUTER CHAT!!! you are not special and it means you. I DON'T DO COMPUTER CHAT. If you don't want to follow my directions don't waste my time and yours contacting me. I will not engage in endless emails either because that becomes computer chat.

7/3/2010 9:04:27 PM

NOTE
To all subs and slaves
If you see a profile that interests you, unless there is a specific prohibition you should send a polite note saying something like "Hello i'm ? May I introduce myself." The Domme/Dom will be polite enough (I hope) to let you know if they are interested as well.

6/9/2010 7:37:59 PM

Why is it so hard to understand that I do not do computer chat. I do not do mic or cam either. I use the telephone. I cannot for the life of me imagine that someone is willing to show me their all together but not willing to give a number to call. I mean exactly what I say after my basic questions I want to speak to the person. I'm not interested in writing "War And Peace" Ernest Hemingway isn't a member here. I am not Lillian Hellman. I, like most people am a better speaker than writer. If you read a profile and you decide to contact that person, but you know that what they're asking is not what you're willing to do, Here's a thought DON'T CONTACT THAT PERSON!!! If you decide to contact them anyway, try telling them in your first message that you won't be doing as they ask. DON'T WASTE THEIR TIME.

5/27/2010 11:21:31 PM

If you are a smoker , please don't waste my time or yours.

4/24/2010 1:12:39 PM

I'm stymied. I say clearly in my profile/ad that I REQUIRE a TELEPHONE chat and I do the CALLING. If you know that, that is not ok with you, why bother contacting me????????????

12/26/2009 12:47:37 PM

I am on this site because I am SERIOUSLY SEEKING A sub/slave relationship. If you're a player wannabe Do not waste your time or mine.

12/26/2009 12:42:27 PM

Happy Holidays to all

To all subs and slaves that might have given or received game consoles, this site IS NOT A GAME Cartridge!!

11/1/2009 5:46:56 PM

What has become of manners, politeness and common courtesy? If you hear from someone it is polite to respond. That is called common courtesy. Common courtesy like common knowledge just isn't common anymore.

6/18/2008 3:24:01 PM

Are there any REAL subs here looking for Dommes?

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