44, white, single sensual Dom. Never married, childfree and interested in finding a sensual girl/woman who is open to building trust over time in an evolving relationship. You have to know who you are and be emotionally and physically available. Also interested in making friends as well.

Seeking obedient bottoms for...
Chatting and getting acquainted first, perhaps more after that. I'm learning and experiencing like anyone else here; perhaps I seek someone who wants to learn and experience together. I am open to all ages.

What I seek in people -- platonic friends and intimate partners alike -- is intelligence, emotional maturity, humor, wit, a sense of humility and of being down-to-earth. I would like to find people who are very communicative, honest, completely trustworthy, interested in really exploring D/s play with a passion, and enjoys engaging in thoughtful communication about our viewpoints and feelings about D/s and BDSM, and life in general. I'm not seeking a doormat in the slightest, but rather someone who has opinions and likes to share them.

There should be a lot of laughter in a relationship. This isn't all supposed to be deadly serious all the time, ya know. "Vanilla" compatibilities are also important, like interests in the arts (art, music & film perhaps) and general outlooks on life and society -- the happiest, most stable couples I know share many interests beyond kink. However, even when doing vanilla activities or in vanilla company there would be an awareness of our roles and relationship always bubbling under the surface, even when no one else is aware of it.