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MrPaulCA

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Who I am … I'm Paul a young 62 SWM that lives Irvine and have retired which means that I have time to spend with that special woman ... I'm VERY open & honest about ALL aspect of my life and expect other around me to be the same ... I’m a “one woman man” which means that I’m looking for ONE woman / Lady to spend time with … I believe that communication is the cornerstone of any relationship whether it be business or personal ... I will ALWAYS treat you with up most respect at ALL TIMES !!! I'm also a very passionate person publicly & privately which means I enjoy holding hands, kissing, touching, cuddling & snuggling ... What I want … I desire to find a woman / Lady that respects Herself, knows what She needs and willing to give of Herself to one man … She will have had children who are grown and on their own … She will be able to hold a conversation on many subjects and not hold back do to position … She will open & honest about everything dealing with Her life both past & present as I am … She will be happy in Her own skin and not to be concern others see Her … She should have meat on Her bones and not a “Barbie” type woman … Things We can do … I enjoy doing ALL the things that couples do like - Going to movies ( even the "chick flicks" ), listening to music, Dining in or out ( love to cook & even do the dishes ), BBQ, Dancing, Traveling, Cruises, Casinos, Playing cards, Scuba diving, Visiting Nudist resorts, Walks, etc. ... Finally … I’m looking forward to hear from you if you think that I’m the type of man you are in search of and need & desire …
10/20/2012 4:04:38 PM

Why it when You write a woman on this site that they seem never to reply with a letter to say "Thanks but not interestd" or "Yes, lets get to know each other" ?? I just can't quite get it that a sub / slave can be so rude it they are looking for a DOM / Master ... I realize that there are a lot of male wanta bes and yet never that that women as that way ...

2/22/2012 6:35:22 PM

So far, I have contacted 3 women from this site in the past 2 months with possible friends & nothing more ... Is it that I seem too honest about Myself or that I project to be too soft to be a DOM ??

 

I had one woman that said that she was not the right woman for me and yet would NOT say why ... I had to even contact her since several times & day later ... When I did get a hold of her by email, she finially told me and this was after what I thought we had great time together ... I have another that keeps making dates to meet & then cancel ...

 

When a woman tells me that she wants a full relationship with a honest DOM / Master, I feel like saying prove it ... I understand it is hard when it happens to you and yet I have not done that

1/16/2012 10:54:08 PM

I'm sure that women are so tired of the lack of respect & the fakes that are on all the site which they are a part of ... I'm one of the men that pay for those that are fakes & liars and I must tell you that I tired of it ... I would ask that any woman should have the patience to look beyond those men who use the BDSM Lifestyle to used, beat or cheat on to say they are a DOM / Master ... They use women to get the sex they want from women that give themselves to a man for the purpose of submission and when push comes to shave, these men find themselves look for another victim ... The women seem to fall for these men over & over till they are jaded and when a man really wants a real relationship He pays for the sins of those before Him ...

  

It is so hard to find a woman nearby that want to take another chance on a male that might treat her the ones before ... I not think  that it is fair nor life is not fair ... I keep looking for that special one that I hope one day to find ...

  

Love has a high price to those that takes the chance on it ...