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A little about me. I'm actually a pretty regular guy who is looking for a pretty regular girl. In my life I normally end up in charge of whatever situation I find myself in. In 2001 I discovered BDSM and never really looked back. I'm an IT professional, single and decently traveled. I'm in pretty damn good shape but I refuse to live in the gym. BDSM is not my entire life nor my identity but it is a very large part, just not a very public part. I've never been into the BDSM/Alt social scene but I'm not adverse to it. I'm looking for a woman that understands what she's comfortable with as far as BDSM. I'm not an expert, I know what I like and what I'm comfortable with and that's all I look for. I'm looking for a woman that wants to live life and be happy... and that happens to give her submission to the right person. I am NOT looking for a long distance relationship of any kind. I've done it a few times and I don't like it. If you're over 50 miles from Richmond then online friends is as far as anything is going to go. I am not looking for couples, married women or women in relationships. I am not looking for hookups or play partners. I'm enjoy both but I'm really trying to find something more than that. If that interest you then shoot me a note, let's get to know each other better and lets see where it goes.