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| Hello dear reader. I am a mature man, both physically and mentally mature, and I am here on CollarSpace to find someone spectacular, amazing and completely fantastic. (probably just like you) I am not your average or typical dom, neither am I a close relative to the nilla folk. I would however still classify myself as a genuine dom. Now I know that the word dom can mean different things to different people, just like the word sub, both sub and dom a subjective words, anyone who has spent some time with genuine subs and doms will all tell you that we are all different. There maybe some common traits, but this doesnt mean we are all the same. No dictionary can adequately describe or define with any depth the true meaning as to what it is to be either submissive or dominant. Some words are to complex to do justice to, in a few simple sentences or paragraphs. I strongly believe that our childhood years have a direct correlation in shaping us as adults, (maybe you do too?) My childhood was far removed from the normal vanilla lifestyle, it was far removed from the average or typical. I was not subjected to the standardised mandatory cultural norms or to the conditioning of the systems of control that most have to experience and endure, kinda like a right of passage into nilla-hood. So I know without any doubts that I am different, Im not saying that this difference is a good or a bad thing, as good and bad are also subjective words. I suppose I should be telling you how wonderful I am and how special I am, But Im not here to fill you full of BS and sweet talk your knickers off, Im here looking for someone who compliments me on many different levels, Im looking for longterm hopefully permanent. So what am I looking for? Someone different! Im fine with you looking normal, acting normal, dressing normal, talking normal etc, but inside you know you are not like the others, you are different, different in so many ways. I have been Dominant for most of my adult life, and I can assure you, simply being either dominant or submissive does not qualify you as different, There are many aspects and personality traits that need to be different in order to make you different. To explain all the differences is beyond the realms of this tiny little profile, but suffice to say, if you are “Different” you will know it. You know you will have different wants, needs and thoughts to many others. Many of your thoughts will not be understood by others or even accepted. If you too know you are different, then I want to talk with you, who knows maybe our differences are compatible, suitable and complimentary to each others. I am a real person, not here to waist My time with online cyber games or to mess you around, I am serious, genuine and ready to build something beautiful and long term with the right submissive. Don't expect romance or riches. My name is not Mr Grey, Im not a fictional character, I am not always loving, kind, considerate, understanding or even friendly. What I am is Different and Real. Neither am I one of those loud must be heard doms who talks at the tops of their voice, I dont need to raise my voice, I dont have the need to be center of everyone's attention, I am more than capable of owning authority and controlling you with quiet confidence. Furthermore I am also very capable of gaining your respect, correctly and appropriately, rather then using only cheap second rate dom tricks like intimidation and fear. Dont think that Im some nice guy who only wears a white hat, because I will raise my voice, I will shout and threaten you, fear is a good tool and a healthy ingredient in all M/s relationship, but these are not the only tools available to me. I am fully aware of the responsibilities, duties and commitments as your Owner, master and trainer. I also fully accept that from time to time consensual can become a little blurred and cross the lines into unconsensual territory. This isnt necessarily a need or a desire on my behalf, to push and keep pushing, just for the sake of it. but more of a necessity in a M/s life. If you do not understand or accept this then please Do not contact Me. I have no desire to talk to anyone who believes in equal rights, play sessions, safe words or any other vanilla driven kinky part time bedroom games. I have experiences in all facets of slave training, control & power, pain acceptance, sexual, domestic, obedience, submission, care and personal assistance training, as I can assure you in the real world things can be very hard at times, emotionally and physically. Im not an actor in a chick flick, I dont do romance, I mainly do dominance, as in I still have a sense of humour, I can still laugh at things. I can even be polite at times but this doesnt detract from the core personality of who and what I am. If you have needs to be owned and controlled and consider yourself not like the others, I want to talk with you.
To surmise Im different and Im looking for some who is also different.
Updated /updates:
* I have owned a poly home previously, (4 fem slaves) so someone who would like to live along side other slaves would be more suitable, as I honestly dont think I could ever go back to being a one slave man again.
* I am only interested in forming Long term relationships, Im not looking for a sub/slaves, Im only interested in The Right sub/slaves, I am neither hard-up or desperate, furthermore sex is not the major consideration here, I am very picky and will only accept someone who is suitable.
* I am More suited to slaves than subs, although we all have different understandings so Im willing to hear your definitions, However I am far more suited to someone who states they are no limits.
* I am Straight, as in not gay or bi, However Ownership for me is not about sex, (it maybe for you, but not me) its about Dominance and submission, Ownership and control, so I will not rule out owning a male, but you are going to have to be something extra special.
* 100% single, non smoker and Yes I know exactly what I want.
* No interest in K 9, blood, scat or swinging.
* I do consider myself to be different, But different doesnt necessarily mean right or wrong, good or bad, it just means uncommon, not mainstream.
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