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I am a 31 year old white male in search of an “unusual” relationship...I am looking for a long-term relationship, built on trust and affection, of which the center would be BDSM role-play...we could also have a dating and romantic aspect to our relationship.

I thought I'd try posting here, hopefully finding such thing..

Therefore: Smart, married (read again--married), sexually adventurous man seeks a cool (not cold) gal for the enjoyment of mutual carnal pleasures. I'm a LTR kinda guy, and you should be an LTR kinda girl. I run to the sexually submissive side, but don't necessarily expect me to call you "Mistress" or “Domina” unless you deserve the title. I do like some aspects of BDSM, and lotsa other stuff (with the right person) and a take-control partner in bed, but I can always return the favor. I can switch roles easily and I hope that you can too for the optimal experience. I am playful in all things. And skilled. It's not the act, after all, but the woman.

All types are appreciated. I'm tallish--5' 9"--and kinda fleshy, currently working on it in the gym, buy no means obese (meaning as long as you are not too tall it’s great, and if you're heavier side, it's no big deal).

I just ask that you are clean, drug and disease free, over 21, honest, and willing to invest time and care into this. I am in a relationship so I don't care if you are as well, just please be upfront with it...

Immediate disqualification if you don't know discreet from discrete.

Photo not necessary (but appreciated) until we've established some kind of basic compatibility, and then we can exchange. Okay?