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I had to pick switch because it makes you choose, not really because I put myself in that category. 

I am actually more poly with a bit of a kinky side.  I like a touch of the bdsm, but not as an everyday rule.  I still very much enjoy making love and the more gentle things in a relationship.  Sometimes I like being in charge, other times I enjoy giving all of it up.

My husband is kinky also, though not really into the 24/7 type of situation.  He can be anything from very rough, to very gentle depending on his mood.

We are looking to add to our home another female, a sister wife (so to speak).  It doesn't matter if you label yourself as switch, dom, sub, or slave...as long as you think you would be happy in our home.  I am not sure a slave would be content if she really wants a lot of control taken, we aren't really that type.  My husband is the head of the home, and I would be the second..though more an equal than anything.  I would just the one taking care of the bills and things of that nature as I do now.

We have so much love to share with the right person, it's just so hard to find her.  I have no doubt she will be worth the wait and someone we will enjoy in an LTR.

We all work outside the home and that makes it so we can enjoy play on the weekends.  Anyone joining our home would be expected to work atleast part time to contribute to the household.  We are drama free and expect our home to stay that way.

We both have an easy going personality and take life as it comes.  We have a lot of interests and enjoy sharing them with the right person.  We aren't looking for another notch in our bedpost, we can get that anywhere.  We are looking to make our family complete.

Thanks!