Collarspace.com

Other bdsm sites I have visited seem like a kinky version of e haromy or match.com. I have approached control from 2 opposite positions. With some, physical control is given before she concedes my mastery of her mind. With others, she may only submit to physical control once she has let me into her head, shared her vision of her submission and signaled her desire to have me take more control. To a degree - its the same - strong to the point she yields her body and mind. D\s is not all one way or the other. I think - like e-harmony - its matching up profiles of likes, dislikes; tempermants and appetites; readiness to explore with the right need to explore and then the need to explore the same and new needs. What do you think?