Interested in ultimately finding that specific slave girl that fits with my expectations, I can have an intelligent conversation with and makes me laugh.

The fact is that life is complex and no one aspect can fully define the whole. Master, slave, father, mother, brother, daughter, sister, all are hats we each must wear that require different modes of interaction and which carry different sets of rules.

There can be an underlying awareness of the strong M/s relationship which always exists, while still participating in all aspects of this world with proper balance.

I'm a professional with obligations to family and friends and my career. What 24/7 TPE means to some is not necessarily what it means to me. Often times the 24/7 restraint is an awareness of expectations and consequences instead of always being tangible leather and iron. (although there is a time for the explicit and tangible expression).

Many here may have the simplicity of life and luxury of privacy to live a explicit BDSM lifestyle. Personally I do not, nor do I wish that, I appreciate all of the aspects this existance; many of which do not fit nicely with explicit dress and open expressions of M/s or sexuality. This life requires balance; an M/s relationship can be more intense, deep and passionate between the two, while still finding balance with the world around.

My kinks are fairly dark, and my personality is completely dominant, without loosing the need for fun and laughter. Personally I value peace and prosperity over a constantly challenging girl. In any M/s situation, there are those times when she challenges her bonds and is reminded of her place. At times that can be enjoyable, and at other times can be completely inappropriate... it's important to know the difference.

I enjoy talking to anyone, about kinks or lifestyle or anything else... feel free to say hello.

-Methos