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[update - am now in exclusive relationship, but too lazy to edit my blurb.]
hello out there =)  i'm not sure where to start...  i'm a laid-back eccentric playful guy.  shy, but i've got nothing to hide and can be pretty open one-on-one.

i'm just looking to meet someone that i click with.  friendship would be fine. a vanilla relationship or cuddle-buddy would be great. but obviously i'm here cos the magic /really/ happens when i meet a likeminded submissive girl who wants to explore...

i can't really be more specific than that.  i'm open to all possibilities except: no one-night-stands, no marriage, nothing dishonest.

yes, i have experienced a wonderful committed relationship where all sex was dom/sub flavoured.  does that make me "experienced" in the sense that BDSM folk use the word?  i guess i don't believe that experience with one partner necesarily applies to a new partner.  for me, sex and relationships are about throwing out your preconceptions and learning about the other person (and about yourself, of course!)

that's all rather abstract.  i like: music, honesty, food, conversation, swimming, reading

oh yeah, and:  gentle kissing; massage; embarrassing a woman by means of spanking, soft condescending teasing, or whatever it is that helps you unlock yourself for me