I am not going to be anyone's soulmate, girl friend or wife. I'm poly and wish to remain poly and single. I'm also not 100% certain I really want to go here, so be warned, I'm not that sure yet what I want.

I am not like anyone you've ever met (everyone says something similar dont they?). I am very personal and have a fulfilling life but I won't be putting it all out here. I do not have photos up but will gladly send in reply to one or if you have one in your profile.

I have a great deal of experience as a dominant, but I want to explore a different side. I'm active in my local community and hope you are too.

I don't mind distance if it can be closed easily but you must have the means to visit me first OR bring me to you first. I won't waste much money on useless situations.

My interest is in dominant UNMARRIED men between the ages of 42 - 57. I am not interested at all in enduring pain but can submit to many activities and hope to simply take care of you and please you.

Again, I am private but I am interested in talking to you and getting to know you. I don't jump at the first pretty thing but rather take my time getting to know people.


I am not a doormat; I am not easily manipulated. I am very strongwilled and sharp - if I submit to you, you will have quite something in your hands.

I am not severely overweight but I am not some skinny little thing. I am strong and substantial and I have curves, my current weight is clearly stated. I'd prefer you to be very similar in stature and definitely taller than me.

I am open to many things, so please message me and let's talk. I'm not open to online, married people, or long distance.

thanks for reading