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Biggest human sexual organ is between the ears and not between the legs" - Anonymous

If ever was a sentence to sum up my approach to the world of BDSM - it would be that.

Who am I? About me : 35 yr old assertive, controlling male from the midlands of UK. In real life, I work as a senior executive and am what might be aptly described as a 'suit'. Below that suit and outside the office, I am dominant male, who seeks submission and power exchange. All personality tests list me as ENTJ or equivalent ( strategists, general, director or manager). I am an old school type of guy.

What do I seek? I seek cerebral submission. My proclivities are for the fine art of spanking and domineering control of the submissive mind and spirit. I do not believe in pain/ spanking/ bondage /humiliation for sake of the act itself- each of those, for me, is a tool to use to express my dominance of the sub's mind. I would love to introduce a new submissive to the lifestyle as I love to mould (hate the word 'train'). My other interests are listed next to this text.

About you: Female, (or a couple) with a deep desire to submit and relinquish control. Interest in being bound and spanked is a given. Rest is up for negotiation.

My other interests : I have a voracious appetite for knowledge and want to understand anything and everything. To me, knowledge is truly power. I love books and browsing the net on a vast array of topics - from military strategy of Rommel to the fine art at the Louvre. Love to travel off the beaten path.

Its difficult to condense my entire life and thoughts onto a short profile page, so why don't we chat for a few moments and see where we go from there....

6/5/2010 8:58:37 PM
Another phase begins..

just picked up a promotion. Where does one go from here? I think deeper in myself - wider - higher.

There is so much out there that I have not yet seen, heard, not yet expereinced, touched or felt...

My thirst to know more about myself, my world, to identify and overcome my shortcomings, to identify and acknowledge my failures, to grow, to prosper, to conquer and to vanquish....

To adapt from Robert Frost : Miles to go before I sleep... many many miles to go ...

AJ



8/20/2009 11:45:39 AM
I feel as alive as alive can be. Have found my mojo again. Starting to dream once more... and now am chasing those dreams.

The rat race has begun to mean more to me. Feel as I can do anything, go anywhere and be anyone!

I want to leave my mark on the air ( learning to fly), land (going horse riding) and sea (scuba diving in the coming week)

Speed and Angels!
7/19/2009 11:00:29 PM
For a lot of  'submissives' I see here ... its all about the corset. Well,to each their own, but ladies -there is so much to this lifestyle than a corset!

7/12/2009 3:25:22 PM
Noted on a profile :

Daddy would  be:  confidant, disciplinarian, mentor, protector.  I would also love a Daddy that would help me financially also: allowance, bills, maybe even rent so he can come visit and stay with me :)

Now, what does one say ...ahem!
7/12/2009 6:33:32 AM
Think I have a suit fetish! bought 4 this week... and planning for 2 more in the next week.
7/7/2009 3:08:35 PM

Last week was horrible. I had to drive over 1000 miles. Not that I hate driving, I don’t - but this was different. It was on winding, narrow and busy roads - with too many HGVs overtaking one another. Just hours of tedious driving.

 

I don’t like music while I drive. Its time when I contemplate - on my life, my passion and other things that are important to me.

More later ...