I am an experienced Dom and understand the need for you to sometimes give up control. To be like a child again, without worry, fear or stress.

I also understand that sometimes what you want is a straightforward hard spanking that makes your bum all hot and red. Followed by three fingers fucking you hard until your orgasm splashes like a waterfall over my hand and arm.

But then again, sometimes what you want is to leave your door unlocked and go about your daily business and for me to sneak through your door and grab you from behind before you even know it. Using my hand to cover your mouth and my strong arms to hold you tight. Completely in my control. And for me to whisper in your ear what I want you to do or else...

If you are looking for somebody who doesn't respect you or your need to submit then I am not the right person for you. It takes mental strength to let go and accept your need to submit. I have a lot of respect for that and enjoy finding new ways for you to fullfill that dark desire.