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| Our relationship was recently born out of a much more complicated situation. We effectively decided that it was time to take this more seriously and become monogamous.
So, why, you ask yourself, are we making a profile on here?
Put simply, we've both been in poly relationships in the past, and don't totally feel that we've finished exploring. While we don't really want to get back into a poly relationship, we are seeking more kink orientated friends, who potentially will grow to that situation that society doesn't quite have a word for. Not a poly relationship again, but not "Just Friends". Perhaps, good friends will suffice for now.
Our nominal relation dynamic is that of a male dominant (A), female submissive (L) partnership. We have deliberately grown a healthy vanilla underlying relationship, and we don't really live as a 24/7 couple, however the relationship quite often reflects our kink orientation despite our best efforts.
We both have natural switch sides that we are interested in exploring, despite L's insistence that she doesn't have it in her.
A bit more about our vanilla sides. We are both total geeks, and this is a glue that binds our relationship. While A has found a natural expression of this in his professional career, L hasn't quite found her direction yet. Between us we do a great line in alternative web hosting, including graphic design and custom scripting.
To be clear - We are not interested in online subs or Dom's, or people attempting to just have sex with L (or either of us for that matter) dressed up in fancy language.
We would be happy however, to travel around the country after a few messages.. :)
That's all for now,
A&L
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