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| Update 9/18/2015 I have left NYC and moved outside of Fort Sill in Lawton Oklahoma due to work. Still single and Uncollared...still looking....
I am in control by day and in all aspects of my life but wish to submit in the bedroom and to my partner. Control is exhausting to me, while necessary for work, I do not enjoy it. The only aspect of control I enjoy is doing things properly and to best of my ability. I have not been able to find a true Dom who respects a woman and just doesnt want to explore his proclavities or hurt his sub. Yes, pleasure comes with some pain but I am not a pain slut or a masochist. I wish to submit and be in a loving D/S relationship where both parties are satisfied and fulfilled. ?
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Update 8/22/13 While it is very flattering to be approached my men of varying lifestyles, race and locations.... My preferences and tastes have developed over time and with reason. First, i have no desire to be a slave. This is not a 24/7 life for me. For others, that works but my submission is in the bedroom and private time with my Dom. Emphasis on private. Second, just like i prefer strawberry over chocolate ice cream...my attraction to men is Caucasian. Just like ice cream, there is nothing wrong with butter pecan or fudge swirl but I wont be eating it. Like an openminded woman, i have tasted the flavors offered and still my favorite is strawberry. Lastly, for now as I am sure things will continue to arise... I am only interested in interacting with men In Oklahoma. This is my home and I am NOT relocating again anytime soon. I am not interested in being someone's plaything as they pass through town on business either. I am seeking a long term relationship with one compatible Dom blessed with my submission. If I wanted to simply play or satisfy my sexual needs, there are avenues and outlets for that purpose. I am looking for something more substantial. With all that being said, thank you for your interest. I do not like being rude and have enough respect to answer all inquiries but I hope this alleviates any confusion or ambiguities.?
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Update 11/15/2013...I am sorry that so many married men are dissatisfied or unhappy in their relationships. I don't wish to ruin anyone's marriage or have a hand in their infidelity. I believe in the covenant and sanctity of marriage. I would hope if I were married and my husband were unhappy he would talk to me and not seek out another or have the balls to walk away. Big bad Doms that dont want to walk away. Isnt that like the #1 rule in this lifestyle? Communication? hmmm ?I understand "for the sake of the kids" but for their sake....let them have happy memories of their parents even if that means apart. (((stepping off my soapbox)))
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Update 3/2014....still ISO Dom. A female flatmate in college told me once "If he is not willing, he is not worthy"...wise words of Miss Nona....We are all busy but need to carve out times for happiness and if you are not willing...move along. Sub doesn't equal doormat. It also doesn't mean that my time is any less valuable than anyone else's. Don't waste mine. I have just about had it with extended online interviews and pic requests...if you are not willing to meet, don't bother initiating contact. Also, I will not be providing anyone with spank bank material. Profile pic is in fact me and if you don't recognize the venue, I'm sorry you missed it. (the end...rant over)
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