There seem to me there are a lot of genuine people on here searching for their soul mate or play mate, someone that they can grow with.  There are also those that think they can talk the talk!
 But in no way they can do the walk..  It’s easier to spot them now, especially for those of us that have been on here for a while now, 
For you newbie’s it’s an exciting time and when you get those all important contacts and messages your heart lifts... Then you find out that they are not all they seem to be... The one thing that always put me off was they enthusiasm that all Dom’s/Sub's are desperate to meet with them.. When it actually come time to meet them, they always come up with some excuse not to.. The same is said of those that don’t show themselves.. I expect all to be confident enough to display a pictures, if they don’t after talking for some time I will dismissed them as a candidate, for why would you be afraid to show yourself, after all we are all looking for more or less the same thing and no one on here has the right to judge another for our likes and dislikes, not even mine or your closest friends.
Most of all I'm not ashamed who I am or who you are.

I do however respect the decision of those that do not wish to show themselves, as for myself..
I have seen my oldest son wife on here so I have taken my picture down but will show myself when the time is right

I wish you all the best luck in the world and don’t ever give up on your desires...Just go for what you feel is the best for you

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