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I’m an artistically professional business owning woman with a submissive propensity looking for a strong minded single professional alpha male. Although he does not have to be artistically inclined, it would probably be beneficial and much more interesting for both of us if he, at the very least, has an appreciation for the arts.
I'm looking more for the "get to know you side.... let a relationship develop organically."
The cool thing about this site is that by being here we already know that have the lifestyles sexual side of us in common. Although it may vary in interest and degrees, people for whom are respectful of one another can usually work that part out. But, that's not the first place to start, at least not for me.
Personally, I'm looking to meet a gentleman with whom I can do some dating, enjoy some down time, have interesting conversation etc...
As I am very real, I will suggest fairly quickly that we meet for coffee or a drink to see if there is any type of chemistry (for lack of a better word) between us. For this reason, proximity is also very important to me as I am not willing to relocate….. at least not any time soon.
Because I have met people this way on and off for 20-25 years, it has been my experience that it only takes one meeting to know if we want to pursue getting to know each other. I usually find that if there is no common ground, no chemistry, it doesn't mean the person is a bad person and it doesn’t mean that we don’t have a good time when we meet. It just simply means we need to keep looking.
So, basically, my expectations, in the beginning, are very low but very specific.
I'm looking for a man....
whose personality is predominantly dominant but laid back with a sense of humor at the same time
who is intelligent, imaginative, intuitive, communicative and can hold a conversation
who has respect for himself and others
who is pretty much physically healthy, healthy minded and stable
who is comfortable being himself and has a variety of interests (whatever they may be)
who is more interested in knowing a person as a whole rather than just setting aside time to have the physical side of this lifestyle
who, if the chemistry is there, would like to be part of my life as a whole and would like to have someone be part of his (exactly to what extent or in what capacity is determined by time and growth)
Because I would like to date and share many aspects of my life with this other person, I'm also looking for a man who is not married. I have enough friends in the lifestyle who are married where I could set up some great lifestyle sessions that would be enjoyable and acceptable to all.
As I said, this isn't just about the sex or the kink for me. Honestly, I have found that’s the easy part. In fact, I could have that any time I want it. And, it would be great and wonderful and heart felt.
What I am missing in my life is a partner. But, it's unrealistic of me to think that I'm going to put up a profile and "Poof! Instant partner!" It's also unrealistic of me to think that someone is going to drop in front of me out of the clear blue sky if I don't put myself out there and meet new people. So, here I am!
This time around, I would like to build more than just a lifestyle partner. This time around I would like to start with a person who has the capacity, openness, willingness and want in this stage of his life to create an open friendship and have the building blocks and stability in place to allow a friendship/relationship to grow organically. Who knows where it will really take us. With some effort and some time, we will find out.
If this makes sense to you and find that you may have some similar thoughts, please feel free to send me a message.
I don’t sit on this site continuously but I do check in a couple of times a week and will eventually answer all who write.
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