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Hetero Male Submissive, 25,  Spokane, Washington
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Note: That photo is of Gandalf the White. I am not an elderly wizard. Though I can't say I'd mind if I was. I am 25, and I'd be happy to share an actual photo and/or skype if/when we hit it off.

Now a rant about myself:
I consider myself a pure submissive. As far back as I can remember I have felt this way, even before I realized what it meant. I consider myself to be, and I hope I don't sound egotistical: Kind, Empathetic, Intelligent. Good looking too? I'll send you a pic when we start chatting. : ) When I visualize my future, it's with a woman whom I respect, adore, and worship. I'm not a shallow guy, a woman becomes more attractive when she is kind, and downright sexy when she radiates intelligence. For me, submission extends beyond sex, and is more important than lust. I knew I was submissive long before I was sexually awakened. It's apart of my nature. At the same time, I'm not submissive towards the world. I'm a very independent thinker, and I reserve my submission for that one woman only, when I find her. I'm not your typical submissive. I don't believe that I'm a loser, that I'm worthless. I'm not aroused by verbal abuse. This is because I seek a loving relationship. I'm not interested in fulfilling my own kinks, nearly as much as I am interested in serving. I want to build my partner up, be her best friend, wait on her hand and foot, her devoted slave. It pleases me when she is happy, otherwise my happiness will mean nothing. When I fantasize about this relationship, I imagine myself doing all the busy work, and chores, so that she never needs bother. I imagine being guided into a more helpful and wise submissive. Bowing at her feet, responsive to her command. I imagine being disciplined for my incompetence, but also motivated to succeed. I have a fairly open mind. It's difficult to weird me out. I guess you could call me amiable, because I'm very tolerant. Sometimes I have to force myself to be angry when the situation calls for it, and even then it's little more than an act. This does not make me a pushover, just easy to get along with. Though, I can have problems being assertive.

So, I find similar things attractive. Girls whose taste is out of the norm. Nerdiness, Geekiness, or obsessive passions. A bizzare but sweet personality. Someone who has a lot of fun, and pursues what they love without giving a damn about what the world thinks. Because, frankly, the world is too damn worried about staying in line.













 Submissive Male



 Willing to Relocate

 6' 1"

 180 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Switch Women

Online Romance

 Lives For:

 Being allowed to worship your body

 You tying me up

 Being allowed to wear your collar

 Being allowed to be your servant

 Being allowed to worship your feet

 Being allowed to do all of the housework

 You putting me on a leash

 Being allowed to be obedient to you




 History (Beginner)

 Intellectual Discourse



 Female Sovereignty

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Classical Music



 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries




 Martial Arts


 Being placed in a cage by you

 Being allowed to give you massages

 Being allowed to service you orally

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Being spanked by you


 Arcade Games (Expert)

 Board Games



 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 Puzzle Games

 Science Fiction

 Web Surfing


 Archaeology (Beginner)

 Astronomy (Beginner)

 Biology (Beginner)

 Chemistry (Beginner)

 Cryonics (Beginner)

 Nanotechnology (Beginner)

 Physics (Beginner)

 Bowling (Beginner)

 Kick Boxing (Beginner)

 Paintball (Beginner)

 Street Hockey (Beginner)

 Swimming (Beginner)

 Wrestling (Beginner)


 Coffee Shops (Expert)

 Fine Dining (Beginner)

 Going to the Opera



 Musical Theater (Beginner)










 Surf Boarding


 Anal Play

 Being allowed to see your breasts

 Hair Pulling

 You deciding when I'm allowed to have an orgasm

 You using a strap-on on me

 Card Games

 Simulation Games

 Alternative Medicine

 Art Collecting



 Mathematics (Beginner)



 Political Activism (Beginner)

 Psychology (Beginner)

 Blue Grass


 Folk Music

 Opera Music


 Buddhism (Beginner)

 Taoism (Beginner)

 Badminton (Beginner)

 Baseball (Beginner)

 Basketball (Beginner)

 Body Building (Beginner)

 Boxing (Beginner)

 Darts (Beginner)

 Football (Beginner)

 Golf (Beginner)

 Ice Hockey

 Soccer (Beginner)

 Tennis (Beginner)

 Volleyball (Beginner)


 Antique Shows



 Online Chatrooms


 True Crime

 TV Sports

 Country Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Heavy Metal Music

 Industrial Music

 New Age Music

 Nineties Music

 Punk Rock Music


 Rock Music




 Curious About:

 Bird Watching

 Fishing (Beginner)

 Flea Markets

 Gambling (Beginner)

 Garage Sales


 Horseback Riding


 Scuba Diving



 Ultimate Frisbee

 Wind Surfing




 Canes and Crops



 Genital Punishment



 Sensation Play

 Maid / Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage


 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Public Play

 Role Playing

 Rubber Fetish

 Sensory Play


 Suspension Bondage




 Online RPGs

 Role Playing Games

 Romance Novels

 TV News





 Conservative Politics

 Liberal Politics (Beginner)

 Libertarian Politics

 Paranormal Phenomena




 Feng Shui


 Horse Racing


 Sky Diving



 Skate Boarding


 Horror Movies



 EMO Music


 Hip Hop Music

 New Wave


 Show Tunes


 Auto Racing



 Bar Hopping




 Eighties Music

 Pop Music

 Seventies Music

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