I have been in and out oif the lifestyle since I was in college and was assigned this topic as an paper. I was trained by some of the best people in the lifestyle in New York City and enjoyed the experience.thoughly. The intensely and committement of those in the lifestyle impressed me greatly as did the intense closeness and bonding they had achieved.

I do not believe that one can life the lifestyle 24/7 and the goal is not to change the personality of the sunmissive but to enjoy and improve. Communication and teamwork are strong beliefs of mine as is honour. I find I am always learning more about the lifestyle.

While I am a dom, I do switch now and then as I find it helps me better understand the submissive role and thus I improve myself as a dom.