You should realize your place is to serve me. I want things my way...

The things I am doing to you during a scene, or leading up to a scene, are a physical expressions of my sexuality.

The more you please me, the more dominating I will become. I am sexual, I am cruel and I enjoy to mix the two.

Two things are wanted by a true man, danger and play. Therefore, he seeks a woman, as the most dangerous toy. –Friedrich Nietzsche

He forgot to mention the control of his most dangerous toy...