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| I'm currently in an open polyamorous relationship with a sub I've been seeing for a few years now. I am open and honest with her, and care about her very much. However, I'm currently looking for fun experiences with new partners, and maybe eventually even another full-fledged relationship. If polyamory is okay with you and you don't mind a guy who entertains more than one relationship, please read on...
I insist that anyone I'm with communicate honestly with me at all times. If something bothers you, I want to know about it immediately. And my memory ain't perfect, so a helpful reminder every now and then is appreciated. I think it's better to know about issues when they're still small than to have them hidden away until they're insurmountable, so don't hide it from me if something is wrong - tell me NOW.
In the realm of kink, I'm a Top, a Dom, and a Sadist. I prefer a D/s dynamic, and while I like being sadistic, but don't need to be. I'm flexible and try to aim for the comfort level of whoever I'm with at the time. I believe in the "risk-aware consensual kink" mantra. I definitely have my own needs and wants, but I want to explore my partner's as well - we should both be having fun.
Here's how I let my submissive know she's special to me: I treat any woman I'm with in a chivalrous manner - opening doors, offering a coat when she's cold, walking her out to her car, etc. I like to get her small gifts on occasion, I'm attentive to her desires, I encourage her independence and interests, I take an active interest in her likes and dislikes and build on those to create a memorable experience. I love taking her out on a grand outing - a night on the town at a nice restaurant and the movies, or exploring the riverside, or on our backs under the night sky as the Perseid meteor shower bathes us in light (all things I've done, by the way).
What I am looking for in a submissive: Honesty, openness, ability to communicate, emotional maturity, patience, attentiveness, an active sex drive. I will take the lead, but I want a submissive who acts, not just reacts - you should make your fair share of phone calls and texts, and initiate plans. I want someone who is capable of surprising me every now and then, reminding me that she's not just a robot to follow commands, but someone who's always thinking of new and creative ways to serve.
Outside of the kink zone, my hobbies are primarily movies, videogames and books, and I love to share. It's a great passion of mine to introduce a friend to a movie I think they'll love. Suffice it to say, the art of entertainment is something of a passion of mine, and one I love to share with a like-minded individual. This passion has even inspired me to start a film-lovers group in the local kink community (Sac Cinephiles).
Anyway, that's all I can think of for now... anything else you want to know about me, please feel free to ask me!
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