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Im thinking that after reading so many profiles - the main frustrations people face here is "the search" - analysing people from a handful of messages is impossible and there are eloquent nutters and grammatically inept genuine people. What does a 30 minute cup of coffee cost in time or money - use this place like a bar, you might not go home with everyone you chat to, but if you go home alone after a few amusing conversations you wont feel bad done by.
Then theres the abundance of messages - thats easy - weed out the cut and pastes, the weirdos and reply a simple question to the rest. dont expect to find their life story, just decide if they are equiped to handle life or fantasists and grab that coffee.
I think half the problem is we want to find out partners online! Thats not how it works, you meet people online, you find your partner maybe weeks or months after you meet someone... |
