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UPDATE I have now a primary partner. However, we are currently taking a break from our lifestyle, potentially temporary potentially permanent. My partner knows I am here seeking connections. However, I still seek to enjoy BDSM and seek out lifestyle submissives to relationships with. After a freak accident in 2019 I have been left unable to enjoy sexual intercourse, I am unsure to what degree this is permanent. |
Mistress seeking future BDSM friends and potentially life partner not casual sex or meets.
I seek to build friendships and relationships with people into femdom, FLR and BDSM. People into the bdsm scene, people with experience of FLR and femdom relationships. I am not in any way shape or interested in dominant or neutral men or submissive women. Not interested in beginners or try outs, only people who have experience in living the lifestyle or genuine submissive people with experience who know what they like and want.
I would class myself as demisexualsapiosexual and a small percentage A sexual. Please know the meaning of this to prevent you from wasting your time. I have spent a lot of time alone and learning myself. The level of commitment and dedication and servitude given to me is deep. It is a game of trust and loyalty. I do not seek someone who wants the veneer, more someone who seeks a soul mate for bad days and good to be loved at our worst and best.
One day I seek one forever relationship. It is essential this is FLR and chastity 247 and with a submissive man,or TV,TS no switching. I like alpha men to the outside world and submissive to me. Preferably between 40-50, someone mature enough to not be confused in life in any way. I need 200 commitment. Must have no children, be driven and motivated, active and healthy, solevent. I would like at some point a future, that means we both bring to the table, and I have Christian beliefs to a degree, marriage. Children I am not set on and I doubt I want them. I do not wish to waste time meeting people with unsimular outlooks. I need someone who wants to share a life and is not commitment phobic. I am a very loyal and honest person who regardless of being dominant is very giving and selfless. I do not wish to restrict another person in their life and do not expect it in mine. I am not a person to stop someone I care for doing things they desire or enjoy, I just require good communication and honesty and full control of the FLR relationship.
I do have a few health issues but given my life is adapted I do not let this stop me from living, things just have to be planned. These are immune and allergy related.
Apart from BDSM being a huge part of my life, I enjoy theatre, music, classical and orchestra to rock and pop. I enjoy learning about new things and reading. I enjoy cars and mortorsport. Travel and relaxing. I am INTJ Female for those who you, you know. I love interior design and renovation projaspects. Period buildings and character are a favourite of mine. Play is prefer an intimate setting private with a few select people rather than clubs etc.
Please do not confuse sexual submissiveness with being a true submissive Male. I can spot this a mile away and have no interest or time for it. I like female friendships with strong women who know how to lead and have and enjoy FLR relationships. I do not practice bdsm to get my sexual kicks. I use it to bring a lasting unique relationship with trust to bring myself and another person closer on a whole different level..
I am not and never will be a swinger and have no interest in the lifestyle. I have zero interest in casual sex or sleeping around. I prefer other things.
I am a successful person day to day and spend a lot of time running my businesses. I like people who are interesting and different and that have ambition and drive. I are best suited to being around these type of people, AB demographics.
I take a great pride in my appearance at all times. My hygiene is 200 on point. I do not tolerate bad hygiene.
I do like to live the BDSM lifestyle and this is a very big part of my life and always will be so long term. I wish to meet people into this type of lifestyle. I have a stable of boys who have served me well in my life and help me out a great deal.
BDSM wise I enjoy more mental control than physical pain inflicting activities. Chastity is a favourite, as is bi activity. The thing that perhaps gets me off is breaking a man, but piecing him back together again after.
In the bedroom I would say I have psycopathic and narcissistic tendencies sexually .... out of the bedroom this is very far from who I am. Please note importantly this is only the sexual side of me, not personal.
I value honesty and loyalty and respect way more than anything else, all relationships i have in my life are based on these three things. Liars will not be tolerated and as good as dead. Its probably best you are not a jealous person or insecure in any way.
I do not wish to be friends with anyone who uses drugs of any kind or excessive drinkers. I am T total and drug and smoke free. My life is in order and drama free and runs smoothly.
Any basic or crude messages will be deleted and you will be blocked. Be creative, capture my attention. My friend list is limited to people whom I may find interesting or have something in common with. Please ensure you use good English and grammar when emailing me. Introduce yourself well and in me all about yourself in as many ways as possible. It is probable that I will not be interested in anyone who is not heavily into my interests.
IMPORTANT The lady has severe allergies. Anyone wishing to play or join me must be understanding of this completely. This is a life and death allergy, anaphylaxis stage. No latex must ever be worn or brought. No perfume or deodorant must be worn and I ask politely you shower at my premises before hand. Anyone turning up wearing any when kindly asked not to will be turned away as it will cause serious health consequences. I tend to play in my own safe environment rather than parties or others, as this carries risk.