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Innersanctum



First, I am interested only in natural born females.? No offense to others, just My preference.
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Second, if your profile has "Under protection of____" or "owned" in it I really have nothing to offer you.? I have respect for other Doms and wouldn't approach or talk to you unless you have them get in touch with Me to give permission.? I would suggest you hide your profile until you are available.
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Finally if you message Me and your profile has no text in it I would appreciate more than just a "Hi" in the message - give Me something of substance to introduce yourself please.
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I am an easy going person so My style tends to be measured.? I consider Myself a loving Dominant.? I do not demand submission.? Receiving it by demanding it has absolutely no meaning or value to Me.? Because that would be a selfish act.? And if given that way it would not be from the core of the submissive? And although there are times when there are acts that appear selfish in this lifestyle, they only come after mutual trust and a relationship are established.? Submission is a gift.? And it is a gift that I realize comes after lots of work on My part, lots of investment in building a relationship and gaining the trust of someone willing to make that decision.? It also comes after a lot of contemplation by a submissive.? It must be right by her.

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Everything begins with communication.? Without it, we struggle.? It allows us to reach that comfort level we need for you to trust Me and for Me to extract the nuances of your personality that I will explore for pleasure.? It also brings us to a more intimate understanding of each other.? I want to be able to read your thoughts by simply looking into your eyes.? And here is another important aspect of communication to Me:? I want it to be so open that you can clear your mind of all worries.? Unburden yourself so that you can focus solely on your submission.? I will take those burdens off your shoulders.? And I want to add that this is important to Me even if we only become friends.? I think that everyone needs a place to vent to clear their minds.? I invite you to engage Me for your benefit.
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I see a woman as a partner first - a willing partner in an exchange of power.? She bestows a great responsibility upon Me to control the path forward.? She trusts that I will take care every part of her being when we are together.? And I will.? Let Me state that this isn't just sex.? That to Me is for the vanilla world.? This is something so much more complex than vanilla sex.? It starts with a chemistry, yes, but transcends a simple act.? It involves so much more than a few hours in bed.? It takes in the physical pleasures that are enhanced by the mental and emotional side of you. And each Dom is different - I assume - in their approach.? I strive for the erotic and the sensual.? It is a goal.? I love bondage.? That is what ultimately got Me here.? Having a sub restrained in a compromising position and then lightly touching her skin, teasing her and watching her react excites Me.? And if we can reach multiple releases that is so much sweeter.? A setting is important too.? Music and candles and aromas can make a difference if used.

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For you, once you surrender yourself I am there to fulfill your particular set of desires.? Let's face it, not everyone is into all aspects of this lifestyle.? Some enjoy impact play while others need a Daddy Dom.? With Me My only requirement is bondage.? It's exciting to Me and a personal preference so please be on board with that much of it.? I am open to all other aspects that may excite you.? We are there for pleasure and it is not pleasurable to force someone to try to enjoy something that they won't.? That doesn't mean that there aren't times when "forcing" isn't part of roleplay - it is.? I understand that there is a time when a sub needs to be handled roughly and that doesn't make Me less of a loving Dominant.? It fulfills a need that we have.

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Finally about you.? This is all about you.? It is My desire to earn your submission.? It is an honor and a responsibility.? That doesn't make Me weak - I am very confidant in My abilities.? I am also in command when it counts.? But it is your decision to release control.? I would be honored to assume it.? What do I look for in a sub?? I prefer mind over body.? We all have flaws that are usually not noticeable that we think everyone else sees.? I have no requirements as far a size, shape, race or age - just be a natural born female.? Let's start with a conversation and see where it takes us.? Worst thing that could happen is that we become friends.? If you are married don't be shy.? We can be friends to.? you may need someone to talk to.

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Now, feel free to say hello.? I tend to be busy so if I don't get back to you right away allow Me some time to respond.? And also, do one thing everyday that makes you feel submissive - even if it is not noticeable to anyone else.? It will keep you focused.

10/24/2016 9:20:16 AM
A little more about being here:  if you need a place to express yourself I offer you a private, non-judgmental space to discuss anything you like - no strings attached.  I am looking for friends with different ideas who are open and honest.  No requirements to call Me Sir or Master or treat Me as anything but an equal.  That only comes with your surrender and a commitment from both of us.  We have to start as friends before moving to the next step.
10/24/2016 8:39:52 AM
I should mention that in My profession I work with government agencies and school systems so I do not post personal pictures here on the profile.  Can't have them thinking that I am demented or a pervert - just saying.  If we become friends then I have no problem with sending something to you.
10/22/2016 8:16:36 AM
Camping this weekend in an area with poor reception. I didn't think through making a profile on a Friday when I had plans....will read tbrough emails quickly now as I pick up some things at the store and respond after I return home. Thanks.
hotchastity
 
 Age: 29
 Wichita, Kentucky