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I would love to find a lady that is right for me. I have come to realize that this requires me to be candid regarding the man I am, and the lady I seek. I think it is too easy to get in a relationship that is so full of compromises, neither party feels complete. So I have decided to just spell out the type of man I am. At least this way you can decide if we may be compatible. I identify as a submissive which can mean so many things, so I will clarify. I am monogamous and expect the same from my partner. I could not submit to a lady that I do not respect and adore. If she wasnt able to feel the same about me then we could never be compatible. I don't think about BDSM all the time. I would like it to be a part of my life, but not 24/7. I would still treat you as my Queen, it's just sometimes we would have other interests that occupy our time. Communication is high on my priorities. Being a man, I find it very easy to open up on what I enjoy. It can't work if it is all about me. Infact, if I am not sure that you are getting what you crave then it can't work. I enjoy many kinks. Some kinks are off limits and some could be negotiable if they were important to you. I am 50, conservative and would rather spend one on one time with the one I love than most anything else. I have no interest in the kink scene, having no desire to share our private lives with others. What we share between ourselves would be our secret. Our secret lives would be ours alone. To my way of thinking, that would make our connection deeper and more special. Anyway, that's me. Not everyone's cup of tea, but that is ok. I don't try to be all things to everyone.