I'm just going to put this all out there, and maybe the one I'm looking for will find me. I'm a pretty normal 25 year old man of average/athletic build, looking for someone who can fulfill some fantasies of mine. I'm looking for a level-headed, confident switch partner around my age who is willing to try some sensory deprivation or surprise scenarios.
To begin, I hope this writing doesn't come across as creepy or distasteful. I'm writing this out to get my ideas out there. I'm a friendly, genuine guy, who is just looking for a special kind of play that I have not yet found. Pain and slavery are not my goal, but rather the element of surprise as we won't be able to see or hear what is happening to us. Who I'm looking for:
Someone who is careful, adventurous, and is willing to accommodate some physical exploration. Someone who is also new to this and a bit unsure of things could also be fun. I love shy, bashful, and coy.
How a possible scenario could play out:
1. At 2:00 PM on August 5th, we meet somewhere. Some place quick and public, but we must be well-composed and discreet. We exchange copies of keys to our places, as well as a quick interior map to where the other person will be waiting. We can also exchange combinations for locks, if we want to go to that level.
2. At 1:12 PM on August 12, I prepare by getting nude, attempting to tie myself down in some way, and covering my head. The goal is sensory deprivation, so I'll be wearing earbuds with music cranked, and I'll have my eyes covered.
3. At 1:30 PM, you quietly enter my apartment, make your way to my room where I'll be waiting, and surprise me in whatever way that pleases you. I won't know the time, and won't be able to hear you coming. So if you want to have your way with me, so be it. Whatever you'd like to do that isn't too aggressive. Depending how tied up I managed to get myself, I may end up being trapped for quite a long time if you didn't show up... so as you can see, trust is required.

4. After you're done with me, you untie any ropes, untie my head coverings, and leave at whatever pace you like. If you want to just unlock me and disappear, that is fine with me. Depending on what we've planned, you could take the head covering and lock along with you...

5. The following week at the same time, we trade places. You prepare by getting undressed, putting in earbuds, cranking up music, and covering your head. You could lay spread out on your bed, or bent over the side. If you'd like to immobilize yourself, I'll free you afterwards. I then quietly enter your place exactly at the predetermined time, and surprise you.

6. After we are both satisfied, I free you and uncover you. We can then talk about plans for the future, if we have any other ideas. Something along the lines of our head covering could be locked with a combination lock. As we wouldn't be able to see the numbers to release the combination lock, we'd need the other for that part... but that could be for another day.


As you can probably tell, I like precise timing. If we're expecting this to work, we can't be sloppy and lack punctuality. If this sounds like something you'd be interested in, feel free to contact me. I'm open to ideas, if this all sounds a little crazy. It's just something I've thought up that I thought would be fun.