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IAnswerToHer

I GIVE UP. THERES NO WAY A 61 YEAR OLD MALE CAN MEET ANYONE ON COLLARSPACE I guess I'd have to describe myself as "submissive". Although I'm looking for a full, well rounded relationship, I admit when it comes to the sexual side of it, yes .. i DO totally have submissive tendencies toward women. I should say up front that while I won't rule anyone out, I'm not actively seeking the full blown "dominatrix - goddess - mistress" type as much as I'm hoping for the "controlling - domineering - wrap a man around her finger" type.
And I'm not seeking the "cybersex - one night stand - random encounter" thing as much as I am seeking the "ONLINE friendship - RT friendship - actual real time LTR" thing. The woman I'm looking for might be listing herself as a dominant, as a switch, as a submissive or a slave .. as a pet, or a brat or a babygirl .. even as an unsure .. or as any number of other things. Some women who proudly list themselves as 'sluts' and 'whores' can actually be THE MOST devastating, domineering, controlling, manipulative and powerful of all. True sluts know better than most the power they have to wrap men around their little fingers. Age and appearance honestly don't matter all that much. The kind of woman I seek knows how to get into a man's heart and head. She knows how to take control of a man's feelings and emotions. And from there his thoughts. And before long she controls his behavior and his actions. A woman who's done that becomes to that man the most attractive desirable woman on the planet. So .. the ideal "you" could be 4'9" or 6'3" .. 88 lbs. or 275 lbs. You could be near my age or as young as 18 or 20 .. you might be shapely and voluptuous or as skinny as a rail .. ultra feminine or asexual .. the sensuous, overtly sexual type or the quiet, intellectual, "bookish" sort .. maybe the center of everyone's attention or even the shy, introverted "quiet but deadly" sort. Black, White, Latino, Asian. None of that matters. In short, the right woman KNOWS she doesn't need to rely on whips, chains, ropes or cages, etc etc. to take complete control of a man .. of a man's heart, of his mind, his soul and body. She takes full control of someone emotionally, psychologically, intellectually, physically AND sexually .. wraps him around her little finger and transforms him into her obedient, attentive, respectful, well mannered possession. Her power is every bit as real in the outside world as it is behind closed doors. AND SO .. if you're still reading this, and if anything I've said strikes a chord, then take a few moments to say hello. We may just make a friend. Maybe more.