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I'd say I've been more submissive than dominant the last few years. Cruel women kind of turn me on in almost any context, as long as there's something sensual in the presentation of it. I'm not too into screaming and yelling, or whips and chains. Its always been a little more psychological for me, as far as what gets me going.
I wouldn't be too thrilled with being strapped into the BallDestroyer5000 and sent home, or some other device that costs more than my car.
I can tell you that I would make the worst long-term sub. I'm hard-headed, a little arrogant, slightly misanthropic, and happily defiant. I probably wouldn't stand-down in anything outside a sexual context, even if there were good reason to. I also like exploring all aspects of my personality, life, and not shutting myself off from anything. Kudos to anyone who's found their comfort zone and is confident with whatever role they have, though; I'm not judging.
By that same token, I have enjoyed being dominant, but would also never want that as a full-time role. I respect and look for independence above most things. There's also a whole lot of cruelty and sadism that I'd love to receive that I know I couldn't give. The dominant side is limited within a certain framework, but I enjoy it within those limits.
BDSM may color a few aspects of my life, but its not front and center.
I also like keeping it hidden away, and for reasons other than shame or embarrassment. I do get told that I look or seem innocent quite a bit and I make no attempt to change anyone's mind. Odds are good that I'm the least innocent person in the room when this happens. But I like that there's something within me they aren't picking up.
Have a little sliver of maturity and a basic point-of-view on the world around you. It can be drastically different than the POV I have, but just have one.
Non-BDSM:
My politics are liberal, I guess, but I have my reasons for being apathetic, or sometimes not caring at all. I also don't feel the need to rail against religion constantly. I decided I didn't believe in God when I was 7 and I haven't given the topic much weight since. Religion has never made me angry. There are just way bigger fish to fry. Don't blame Christians because you can't marry seven people or go to the convenience store naked with a butt plug hanging out of your ass. I'd say you have it pretty good even without those privileges. 95% of the people in this country, who are really struggling, wouldn't want to hear it, and don't need their platform hi-jacked or in anyway weakened. Get out of San Francisco and see how much people give a shit about whether 20 people can get married to one another. I may have just made a caricature of these types but still...get over it.
What else? Baseball. I like baseball.
"Lives for Punk Rock Music" is truth, it just doesn't mean mohawks and spiked leather jackets, or falling for a 35 year-old Malcolm McLaren scheme.
So yeah...long profile. Message me if you'd like, unless you're some dumb ape, hoping that I'm gonna be the one breathing thing on earth that'll accept an invitation to see his dick. You're still gonna message me but w/e.
If you think I seem like a total piece of garbage, go ahead and tell me that, too. I like conflict. I like honesty. And if you have valid reasons for thinking so, maybe I'll appreciate it on a whole other level.
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when you rant about how you don't want x, y and z types of males messaging you, that only increases the likelyhood that these guys will message you. there is literally nothing you can do to avoid being messaged by these types when you're on this site, or on the internet in general. they are looking for rejection, remember? the whole process of sending you a message and being rejected, in any conceivable way, turns them on. seeing a negative characteristic described in your profile that applies to them turns them on. i understand why its bothersome, but it comes across as really dull when you're reading every other girl say it. |
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