I don't play head games. But I do love to play.

I am creative, tender, and trustworthy. I am truly looking for a (real time) partner in life with whom I can explore the depths and limits of sensuality - but know that there are lines that shouldn't be crossed. She must be willing to take care of me as much as I take care of her. She will be just as comfortable in formal evening attire as she is with only a collar and a single rope around her wrists. I listen well and will ask questions to find our mutual desires.

I was introduced to the lifestyle about two years ago, but I have always been interested even if I wasn't an active participant. I am aware of the risks and fears of meeting people online, and am open to the idea of taking things slowly.

I wish to find a straight or bi-sexual female Submissive or Slave, between 25 and 40 years old, with her height between 5'0" and 5'10" and her weight proportional to height. She should be one of the following: Caucasian, Asian, Hispanic, Native American, Mixed African American. She must live somewhere in the following areas: North East Illinois, Middle Illinois, South East Wisconsin, North West Indiana, or South West Michigan

What IS required of you and not open to negotiation is:
Honest, Forward, and Open Communication; Public Displays of Affection; Friendship; Courtesy and Respect; Commitment and Loyalty; Intelligent Conversation; Reliability and Responsibility; Passion and Uninhibition; Playful, Supportive, and Encouraging Personality; Sense of Humor; Safe Word

I am NOT looking for someone who wants me to beat the crap out of her. I am NOT looking for someone who wants me to abuse her. That will NEVER happen. I am also not looking for one of those women who wants me to force her to stay in my life. If she doesn't want to be with me then she should go, she should not expect me to make her stay. She also shouldn't put herself in sitiuations that require me to save her. I have no time or patience for games and game players.

I don't want a Secret Life, but I do want a Private Life.

Taking applications now.
APPLY ONLY IF SERIOUS

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