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| I’ve tried to tell the whole story in my username. I want and need a deep, rich loving relationship and despite many failures in that direction I still believe it is possible with the right woman.
I want to make it clear from the outset that I am not a macho male. Beer, burgers and TV sports are not my thing. I am a thoughtful guardian type. While the sensitivity that that brings with it has attracted many women, my proactive nature has also led to them feeling over-controlled and resistant so that our relationship has ended up in a battle of wills.
I think that is because I have failed in the past to be explicit as to my full needs: I need a woman who truly desires to surrender to her love for her man. I want to work with her to create an ethos in which such surrender is not only safe but also clearly the best way to ever-deepen our connection.
The more you can give yourself to me, in other words, the more I will devote myself to you.
I don’t want to give any false impressions. Your surrender will be tested repeatedly and you will find yourself giving more and more as our bond grows stronger. As will I.
I am not just talking sex-life here. I need to know every day, all day, that there is something about you that belongs to me.
And you? You are intelligent, and quite probably hold a professional job such as in the legal or medical professions or in the high tech realm.
You are diligent: you do not give in when challenges arise, but seek to resolve them and move forward.
You are obedient, (or you are afraid of obedience and yet yearn for it) as this gives you the focus and security you need to be able to build the relationship you know will benefit you most.
You may be none of these things absolutely. Not yet. Except perhaps for your intelligence. But you know you are diligent and that a clearer set of guidelines, lovingly yet firmly enforced, will help you make faster progress toward your personal goals at work and at home.
For myself, I am intelligent and professional, fully active at work and in my exercise and other activities. My age is an asset in my understanding and patience and also in my determination to persist until I meet my twin soul and build the unique life we can have together.
I believe that an individual’s greatest opportunity for growth comes from a place of unlimited love and encouragement, constrained by clearly defined and enforced boundaries.
I need a woman who desires that growth for herself and who believes that a surrendered personal life is the only way she will achieve it.
I want to build that triumphant and profoundly personal castle with her. Perhaps with you. I will do my utmost to make it possible.
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